He's always so sincere... one time he told me that I looked disproportionate (my hips/ass is bigger than my breasts), he often jokes about my small breasts and points out my flaws, like it's nothing, while talking (some of them I didn't even know before I met him and made me really insecure).
Sometimes he would make comments about girls, like saying my friend X is cute or good-looking or compliment someone about her hair or something like that. One night we were out with my friends, he turned to me and said "Sarah looks really good tonight". One other night we were hanging out and, while we were talking, I don't remember why, I ended up saying "beautiful girls", he answered me that when I said that someone showed up to say hi (meaning he got turned on).
I never do this kind of things, give him negative comments about his looks or positive comments about his friends' looks. I think it's very disrespectful and hurting, he sounds insensitive when he does it, like he doesn't understand that it could possibly hurt me.
Am I overreacting? Do you do the same as my boyfriend with your partner?
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