Why is my boyfriend saying I hurt him?

[Anonymous]

Basically he was hurting my feelings and ignoring me so I did the same thing back and now he's saying that I'm hurting him and putting depressing things on his story, and I don't know if i should still be upset at him or not🤣.

[CallMeDave]

In most cases, I think that deliberately hurting your partner because they hurt you is immature and is more likely to make your relationship worse than better. If your partner did something that hurts you, I think you need to tell them how you feel and why. If they are a good partner, they will try to understand how you feel and try to avoid doing the and thing again. If they don't care that they're hurting you, then you should find a new partner.

When there are problems in a relationship, escalating the problems by deliberately hurting your partner is not going to help anything. You need to try to resolve the problem, not add more problems.

[Anonymous]

He seems very aloof, talk to him about this so he knows to be more careful from now on. He needs to know how powerful words can be.

[BasedBaeBecca]

You should not feel bad. If he's hurt because you ignored him after he ignored you and hurt you then that's on him. He can't treat you that way and then be mad when you return the exact same energy. If he's putting depressing things about you on his story thats even more of a reason to just move on. You're not at fault here whatsoever, he's just being a child and trying to guilt trip you. Don't give in.

[RoseySarah]

I'd be mad cause I'm doing to him what he does to me! Sadly that never works and my friends and I have really tried that a few times.

The boys just get pissed and hurt and whine!

Talk with him if that won't work then break up baby's who can't communicate are not worth it 😔