he knows that i have had some pretty traumatic stories. I have told him about a man who touched me s*exually and I couldn’t fight because i froze from fear. Now i could be reaching but we watched a tv show together. In the show the girl gets r@ped, and she doesn’t fight & she leaves looking okay which is a pretty common & a usual thing. My boyfriend starts calling her a wh*ore and he says since she didn’t fight & she just froze she was asking for it & she is cheating on her husband. Now I don't know if that hit close to home but i found it pretty ignorant & i got mad at him especially because he knows that i have been in a similar situation & I didn’t fight either, not because i wanted it but because i was scared i went blank. He wouldn’t understand that we fought over this for 2 hrs until i stopped talking to him. He then said i am acting ridiculous & i make no sense. I told him you are ignorant & f*uck off. I don't know if i am over thinking this but he is giving victim blaming energy & i hate him for that.
My boyfriend made insensitive comments about ra*pe victims and I hate him for that?
