Is my boyfriend cruel to me or am I just too sensitive?

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I'm having a really hard time to figure out my boyfriend. Our first weeks were really beautiful and I felt so much in love, he even introduced me to his parents very early and told me that he loves me and is serious about me.

However, problems started just after few weeks. He started to make really harsh and cruel jokes on my age (we are same age, but he thinks that I look older and I'm desperate to get married), appearance, about my fashion style and recently he started to comment on other women in front of me. Every time when I asked him to stop and told him that this bothers me, he ridiculed me and we had an argument. Later, he apologized. But he didn't start to comment on women, but he does it in a subtler way and he mocks me for wanting to be seen as "the only beautiful".

This week we had an argument, because I wanted to give him a short call after I traveled (just to tell him that I'm ok and how my travel goes), but he just wrote me that he's on a lunch with his friend and his girlfriend, so he can't talk. I found it insensitive and felt completely excluded, like I'm not important to him at all.

And now he just informed me that he was invited (only him, not me) for a week to a beach house of his friend's girlfriend to celebrate her birthday. He barely knows her and I'm sure that they would invite me as well if he'd ask. But he didn't.

I feel so hurt and ignored with him, but on the other hand, I'm just wondering if it's just me who is too sensitive or is his behaviour to me objectively that cruel.

Is my boyfriend cruel to me or am I just too sensitive?
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