My friend keeps saying my boyfriend is ugly. Why?

[Anonymous]

First of all, im not posting this because anyone’s opinion is influencing my own. I’m posting this to get insight to the situation. Basically my friend keeps making comments like “it’s good your boyfriend is ugly because then I won’t go for him”. Obviously that’s not a good comment at all because it means 1. If she did find him attractive, she would go for him and 2. That’s such an insensitive thing to say to someone. However, I do get the feeling she likes him because she’s always texting him. He keeps it short with her but she seems a little obsessed with him, in a way that’s odd. The thing I don’t understand is why she would make those comments. He isn’t even ugly he’s attractive and she’s the only friend who says he’s ugly yet she obsesses over him. My other friends say he’s good looking but they move on they don’t obsess over it which is a good thing.

[holograph]

I think she's trying to cover for the fact that she actually is attracted to him, and she may actually be going for him. She could even be going for him and trying to cover up for it by saying dumb crap like this. Sometimes people who do bad things, even when not suspected, go out of their way and say stupid shit, trying to avert possibly suspicion (even if there was none in reality), but actually confirm what they're claiming to be against.

[SilentWatchman]

Your friend’s a bitch. She’s into him and she’s tryna make you less suspicious by saying she thinks he’s ugly.

[br33zyyx0x0]

The major problem here is... she's always texting him?
For what?
That's definitely a sign she's into him
What a lying bitch lol

I mean me and my best friend has each other's boyfriend's numbers because of emergency, etc
I only contact him if I can't reach my best friend, or surprising her for birthday, etc
And vice versa.

Do you know what they have been texting? Does your boyfriend tell you?

[pleasestopthis]

Sounds like she wants you to feel discouraged about your relationship and make you break up with him... so she will be "free" to pursue him. Or she wants to hide the fact that she likes him and wants you to think she doesn't care.
A normal friend would say he's ugly once and never bother you about it again. Anyway she's a toxic bitch and you should get rid of her.

[Noobweps]

She's probably hiding a crush on him by acting like he's no good. Also, a good friend wouldn't do that to you. I never thought my best friend's girlfriends were that attractive, but I'd never say that to him because that's just wrong.

[Warmapplecrumble]

she's trying to pull a double bluff - basically by saying he's ugly, you will think she doesn't like him but she likes him a lot and doesn't want you to notice. She wants to take him away from you or have sex with him.

[MusicMayhem]

She wants to convince you that you can do better so you'll dump him so that she can swoop in and steal him when he's vulnerable and thinks you're a bitch.

[Gavyn]

She's trying to get into his pants and she's doing a really terrible job of hiding it.

[Sabretooth]

breaking Benjamin. cool.

[Gavyn]

@Sabretooth Yup! Thanks lol

[Sabretooth]

no problem. i still remember the first time i heard em: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z6s3OoOiyTw

[Gavyn]

@Sabretooth That song's actually from Halo 2, haha.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=eu7VKEBelEk

[Sabretooth]

i know.

[OlderAndWiser]

She is trying to convince herself that she is not attracted.

[prettiblacc39]

Yes, she is definitely attracted to him. She is trying to throw you off with the... " He is ugly drag, " you gotta watch her.

[Annie12234]

Do not listen to your friends! 🤦🏻‍♀️ as long you love your boyfriend the way he is. 👍🏼

[ShadezMcgee]

Sounds like she is attracted to him, but doesn't want to admit it.

[veebee14]

Because she jealous and wants to have your man for yourself , or she genuinely thinks he’s not good looking and can’t understand why you’d go for that even tho it’s your choice

[Grobmate]

It means she is jealous AF. It also shows how immature and toxic she is.

[Bman4907]

she sounds like she's trying to get you to dump him so she can try and date him guilt free

[Texaskid1]

Your "friend" wants to snatch your boyfriend away.

Watch her like a hawk.

[Alex77777]

It's the best answer

[Omar5881]

Your friend is toxic , either she wants to control you or she wants your boyfriend either way its better that you avoid her

[agie69]

1st off I think she might be a little jealous of you. 2nd never trust anyone who sez those things. N how did she get his number?

[Anonymous]

Yet another round of the gameshow that women call life.

[nerms123]

She’s obsessed with him and jealous

[outside_Toronto]

Sounds like someone is dying for some vitamin D

[Babygirl_S]

Because she's not your friend~

[Stella1998]

Beauty is the eye of the beholder.

[Alex77777]

Wonderful darling

[d3ofol]

That seems like envy.

[Anonymous]

Your “friend” is a cunt