Why would men reject a hot girl?

melissa92
OK so I'm in my 30's and can't get a boyfriend. Getting rejected by males seems to be a thing for me. The better looking the guy is-- the more apt that if we met online, he'd try to run away within the first five minutes. The only guys who will sort of be 'semi nice' to me are very ugly or fat or weird guys, and even they treat me like crap. I'm very sweet kind friendly outgoing...sometimes during a date I have to entertain the guy as he's just sitting there like an idiot saying nothing.

I just chatted with a guy on the phone...who I was going to meet up with...when I Talk to people they liek to say "i can't hear you" which isn't true...because I speak loud and fine but they just say it not sure why. once they begin saying it really it means "i have no respect for you so prepare for more mistreatment." so he began saying that, and was very quiet sounding like a weirdo, and had NO personality. He said "uhhh well I think I'm just going to hang out with my group of friends, hope you're not disappointed." again not sure why he would say that...it's almost as if if I sound confident and awesome guys just reject me. Again he had never met me but seemed very desperate to meet online...sometiems males reject me because I'm really beautiful and it seems like an ego trip. But again males make me feel as if something's wrong with me... but I'm gorgeous sweet kind nice and down to earth...why all the mistreatment and rejection?

tehe weird thing is...im used to rejection...males treat me like a weirdo or freak...as if something is wrong wtih me... very few act like "omg" shockedb/c I'm hot but again...why would men keep rejecting a beautiful kind nice girl and for what reason? I'm super hot and gorgeous...i would think being with such a gorgeous girl for men would be likea heaven or something but it isn't apparently...i can't get a boyfriend because no guy wants me and everyone just wants to abuse the crap out of me and nothing else. THey however will respect other women even if the women are mean b*tchy evil...they love every other woman and literally just abuse me...why? or reject me. I've had one guy yellling as he rejected me"you have POWER over MEN"! and was running away. I've had guys run away from me after calling me "hot' and even once a guy was invited back to my place and we were going then be just bailed...wtf? that was WEIRD... he even said during the date "youre like...really hot and amazing"... so why reject a hot and amazing girl and insult her for no reason? and no there is nothing I said or did or anything that happened...yes this on guy seemed to not want to go to perkins as we were there or pay maybe so he bailed but still...i know it wasn't the money...its just weird it makes no sense?

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ive also read stuff from other women, one woman said when she was sort of fat, men asked her out but now that she's thin and pretty men avoid her like a toad...this is how guys treat me-- and I'm super beautiful-- they avoid run away from and are scared of me...once even my brothers friend upon meeting me was hiding behind him...im thin gorgeous and a model..why are men scared of me reject me, don't want to sexually please me or be with me or date me and I look like an exotic gorgeous model
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and I'm really pretty and hot and many people say "oh you're so hot there's no way you can't meet a guy"...some people I meet off cl say "why are you on craigslist...youre gorgeous" or "you should have no problem meeting anyone...or "you don't have 10 boyfriends catering to you"? once an old man was shocked and said "youre single...u shud have any boy you want"! can I date you? only really old men sometimes ask me out as a joke that's it...
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i feel bad for all the nasty trolls and mean people commenting rudely below...if you don't have any good advice, don't comment at all. And people who take entertainment in putting people down who are seeking advice are basic scum...too bad we can't block you ugly freaks from spewing your hate on here
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