How come im not allowed to reject an attractive woman?

[Chthou95]

There's a double standard when it comes to rejection. Usually you'll hear that men can't handle rejection or feel entitled. But id argue women are way worse. Women get a lot of attention from men and that power goes to their head where they think they're queens. But if an average guy rejected her for whatever reason, somehow these woman get offended and call you a bunch of names. It's almost like "How dare you for rejecting me a hot girl when you're an average guy. You should be lucky i even gave you the time of the day". Sometimes even other women will call a guy names and stuff for rejecting an attractive girl. Why can't men reject her?

[Anonymous]

This opinion is pretty biased but I’m not surprised if you’re basing it off personal experiences. Of course women can have a hard time with rejection but no more or less than men. You may reject this notion but it is true. For instance, I’ve encountered men who take rejection so bad I fear for my safety just by saying no. I’ve had a man hop a fence, come sit at my table and harass me for saying no to giving him my number. I’ve been with a friend where we were just going to a club, some man on the street hit on her, she rejected him, then he follow us all the way down the street before slapping her ass and running away. I’ve been stalked through clothing stores, grabbed at when im walking past and jerked backwards, yelled at, etc etc, all because I wasn’t interested and a man felt entitled to me saying yes. So from my perspective, your logic works both ways

[Chthou95]

Men can be bad too. But men not being able to handle rejection is way more talked about than how a lot of women can't handle rejection. Women can be just in their own ways but it gets a free pass

[Opinion Owner]

True that women can be in their own ways, but the result of us being rejected is not nearly as explosive as a man’s. At most our pride/ago is wounded, and a very snobby girl could yell or embarrass you but that’s it. Often times a rejected man is dangerous, because he won’t hesitate to get physical at some capacity which is not ok at all. This is why it’s more talked about, because it’s a bigger issue and talking about it spreads awareness. That is where we are in this day and age, literally having to share our horror stories just to warn someone else that they may want to be careful who they say no to..

[Opinion Owner]

*ego

[Chthou95]

So because a couple men are crazy and do dumb shit, women assume most men would be like that?

[Opinion Owner]

Realistically it is not a couple men. This is a widespread, state to state, country to country issue that women are both sick and afraid of. What sucks about it is that those men who respond negatively to rejection make it hard for well intended men. But of course this is me speaking on the perspective of a woman rejecting certain types of guys. If a guy says no to a woman, you will rarely (if ever) get some explosive, over-entitled response. Also something to consider is how a lot of women still believe guys should make the first move, even if she has a huge crush, her nerves and pride won’t let her make the first move to even risk experiencing a rejection.

[Chthou95]

You're entitled to be afraid of men for this. Just as im entitled to be afraid of certain race that commit way too many crimes than others

[Opinion Owner]

Personally I’m not afraid of men, and you shouldn’t be so eager to push a point that you veer off and drag in a completely unrelated topic. This is simply me stating that men are just as likely to react poorly to rejection, if not more so.

[Chthou95]

Its important though because if women are going to be afraid of men and use statistics to back up their claims, i can use statistics to back up why im afraid of certain race more than others. It's very valid

[Opinion Owner]

Then that is a whole separate conversation from the initial topic. Sure you can use statistics to back up why your (very oddly) afraid of a certain race, but we aren’t talking about race, are we?

[Opinion Owner]

If you can’t stay on topic, then just say that.

[Chthou95]

It's basically a double standard. It's okay to be sexist but not racist

[Opinion Owner]

Again, we aren’t talking about race. As a matter of fact, we aren’t talking about sexism either. I don't know if you’re slow or just have a hard time getting your point across but like I said, if you can’t stay on topic then just say that.

[Chthou95]

I brought this up because a lot of women will say they can't trust men when it comes to rejection using statistics, which is a generalization. Same thing with the race thing. Im generalizing by saying a certain race commit more crimes than others because not every person part of said race is going to commit a crime

[Chthou95]

The whole point of this is generalizations

[Opinion Owner]

Let’s not drag in the race thing, because I genuinely have no desire to delve into that topic. Anyway, this never was a conversation about trust, on either end. It’s simply about women who have literally gone through negative experiences with men who can’t take rejection well, and share their stories with others who have gone through the same. Personal experiences are not statics, which for reference since you’re misusing the word, are studies of numerical data. It is also not a generalization because no where did I state that every single woman on earth has the same logic, and I am an example of that, as I previously stated I do not fear men. In fact, this isn’t even about fearing men at all, but fearing the repercussions of disinterest.

[Chthou95]

Well we can end this conversation there then

[Opinion Owner]

Good choice.

[Joker_]

I'm racist

[Birdlegs]

My friend and I were at a kind of kick back party thing in a dorm last year and this one girl who thought she was soooo fine (she wasn’t actually) really wanted to fuck my friend. We were all drunk so I went to break the seal and I just hear her literally shouting at my friend, “WHY DONT YOU WANT TO FUCK ME AM I TOO UGLY FOR YOU?” And when I come out the bathroom he’s backed up to a wall and she was up in his face shouting at him and he looked at me and asked me to help him out of the situation which I was able to do.
No real point to this anecdote it was just kinda related and it was funny

[Honesttguy]

Yea you can reject them but they will not like it and will call you names, guys also call girls bitches and sluts when rejected, wesk fragile egos

[RuthlessAggression]

You are

Why am i not allowed to reject trump

I rejected him twice, and he still won, at least once

I also didn't storm the capital when he lost, or when biden won

So, why am i getting so much shit for "rejecting him"

[nisnaia]

You're allowed to lol.
Ignore those people who think you should be lucky for one to want you.
She could have been ugly on the inside.

[Anonymous]

I remember I rejected a young woman once and she said, “well fuck you then I didn’t like you anyway!”

😂

Sure you didn’t babe LOL.

[LazerBean]

You are.