Is it weird that I like rejecting attractive women?

[Anonymous]

This girl at my job is liked by a lot of guys and is very pretty. I wanted to see if I could attract her. Eventually, I could tell that she was into me and I subtly rejected her telling her she was like a “sister” to me. She looked crushed and it was the best feeling in the world. I keep reminding her that I could never see her in that manner and she always looks sad each time. I talk about other hot women, tell her about the dates I go on, flirt in front of her, and bring the girls I date around her and watch her squirm. She’s hurt and according to mutual friends, she doesn’t want to date anyone for a long time now.

In general, I love rejecting, ignoring, ghosting, flaking, confusing, and just bruising the ego of attractive women. Is this odd?

[Bluemax]

This sounds like the fantasy of a man who has been friendzoned one too many times. It sounds like a man with too much time and hurt on his hands thinking about getting revenge for all the times he's been hurt.

Frankly, I doubt the veracity of this story altogether.

Assuming it's true (which I don't), you sound like a cruel person.

[I-am-a-nobody]

Sounds like you're a real mature person for being over 45...
I guess wisdom really doesn't come with age, does it?

[silvermoon84]

Haha, I basically said the exact same thing. No I guess it really doesn’t.

[Anonymous]

As if you even have to ask that, clearly your moral compass is skewed and has never matured. Can't imagine you being the type to have had any real valuable relationship. Maybe a week or two in a hospital would give you some real insight into what life is REALLY about. God bless love.

[rose004b]

Yeah, people generally like attractive people. What is also weird and concerning is the pleasure you derive from hurting other people's ego and feelings to boost your own.

[silvermoon84]

It is kind of a dick move, not to mention very immature for someone over 45.

[IShotCupid]

Seems a bit cold, you don't have to intentionally have to hurt someone.

[COMMODOREII]

Tbh there are times i would want to do that to girls who are stuck up and think they are better than everyone. So i am with you on this one. Lol

[richardsnarky]

So, you’re in agreement with the way this guy is treating this girl?

[COMMODOREII]

@richardsnarky generally i do not condone treating anyone bad no matter what. But considering this girl sounds like the girls that like to think they are better than everyone and treat guys like shit who yet to be nice then hell yeah!!

[richardsnarky]

How does she sound stuck up? It just says that she’s pretty and desired.

[COMMODOREII]

@richardsnarky "liked by a lot of guys" is the key. She would have a boyfriend by now if she wasn't putting on guys expectations.

[TacosRAwesome]

Yes it's a dick move to bother attracting someone just to reject them.

[Crazyguy22t]

It is more weird that attractive women approach you

[Asker]

I approached her.

[Anonymous]

I think it is great. It is about time the fire hydrant pisses on the damn dog.

[Theclownn]

Ugh, it seems like you got issues

[Anonymous]

Yeah that’s weird and a dick move

[Isten]

... r/thathappened

[MiamiMadness]

Ummm congrats?

[Asker]

What?

[Luckycharms12]

No not Really

[richardsnarky]

So, you’re in agreement with the way this guy is treating this girl?

[Luckycharms12]

He is afraid being hurt by sound of it I get it. Have go true that before he moves on. But I don't agree with what his doing