Why do men reject kind women who love them because they are ugly and get surprised when they get dumped when they are ill?

[catarecute]

anyone else hears storied of hot men who go out with hot girls then they get cancer and get dumped. its sad but if they picked the ugly girl who loved them this would have never happened.

[Anonymous]

For the same reason women do this. The heart wants what the hearts wants. And some people's hearts are as dumb as s***. Why worry about it? It's their life and they're in their perfect right to make as many mistakes as they like. I just find it comical the women that do this then come on G@G looking for sympathy from the same men they would cross the street to spit on.

[catarecute]

i am trying to understand men that why i am on this site. its not easy. and yea you are right i think the men on this site are probably the same type who would stop their car to offer me a ride and start touching my knees. but i am learning a lot.

[Opinion Owner]

Well why would you get into a car of a man you've never met. Sounds like a you problem. Clearly you trust to much. I ALWAYS have my guard up. Even with women I like I ALWAYS Assume she's lying to me at least 50% of the time (because it's a safe bet). And I'm always waiting for her to hamstring me when I'm not looking. If she doesn't I'm pleasantly surprised. But I'm ALWAYS prepared for it.

[catarecute]

no i dont get into the cars with them but i imagine thats what they will do. thats the kind of things pervs do.

[Opinion Owner]

Well, creepy pervy women exist on this site as much as creepy pervy men. No woman feels bad for a guy that get taken by one of them women and they probably shouldn't. But no self rejecting guy is going to feel sorry for a woman that doesn't use her head when it comes to men. Too few women today want to take responsibility for her choices

[catarecute]

love is blind i felt in love with a terrible person. honestly sometime you can't control you heart.

[Opinion Owner]

No hun, you absolutely CAN. You just choose not to.

[catarecute]

because love is such a divine gift its a shame men can't appreciate it.

[Opinion Owner]

No, we absolutely CAN. But feelings are NOT love! Love is kind, love, is selfless, love is devotion, love is supportive, love is encouraging, love is accepting, love is reciprocal. What you're talking about is just infatuation. Not at all the same thing.

[catarecute]

i dont know who u are but i should keep my life and emotions to myself. i meet people too often who try to tell me that they know how i feel. i meet them all the time those people are toxic. you are anonymous on this site you could be anybody you could even be a woman or the police or my stalker. i will never know. i wouldn't let even a friend i have know for 20 years tell me what i feel and how to feel.

[Opinion Owner]

I'm not telling you how to feel. That is totally your choice. Just don't get mad at us when your feelings land you in a place you don't want to be. That's all I'm saying. Yes, based on your posts I've read you probably should keep your posts to yourself if you think you already have the answer for the questions you ask. It comes off as you just want to complain. I'm not mean, I'll even listen to somebody vent a little bit to help them feel better. But at the end of it all you have to want to fix your problem. And that's STARTS with ACCEPTING the role you play in it. What is the common denominator of all your past relationships? You. At some point you have to consider the possibility problem is not THEM.

[catarecute]

tbh i use this site to help me grieve. i fell in love with this one guy 3 years ago and i want to grieve my talking to others on this site then move on. the problem is i think he is stalking me and reading those posts. and i am starting to think his girlfriend is getting involved. i havnt been to the police but the fact that his girlfriend is getting involved in the stalking makes me think this is fucked up and maybe i should go to the police.

[inhua]

so kind women love hot men. yeah let's forget about ugly men whom kind and unkind women dislike

[catarecute]

if they aare ugly and have a nice personality then women will love them. i rather an ugly guy with a good soul and heart than a hot dumb cheating perv a hole

[inhua]

that's what they all say but actions speak louder than words

ugly men get held to ridiculous standards compared to their hot counterparts so much so both the man and woman end up miserable. he'll never become what she wants him to be and he will be beaten down and emasculated for all his "failures"

[catarecute]

the difference is that anyone who is ugly can with a bit of effort become hot. but dicks, pervs and a holes will never be nice.

[inhua]

you misunderstand. I'm not talking about hot guys who are lazy and became ugly as a result. I'm talking about ugly guys who are still ugly at their absolute best

looks is harder to change and is more permanent than personality which is easily malleable

[catarecute]

its so easy to relook ugly people. just need to change their diet hair style and a bit of exercise. turning a dick into a nice person is almost impossible.

[inhua]

turning a dick into a nice person can be easily done as is the reverse

for ugly girls, sure there's makeup and skin care products. for ugly guys it's very much impossible without some form of surgical procedure

ugly guys can never grow taller. ugly guys can never regrow their lost hair. ugly guys can't increase the width of their shoulders or the angle of their jawline or brow ridge or penis size

[catarecute]

well if a guy is nice and has a good heart i will date him regardless of his penis size or size. actually i love short men i find them sexy. and no you can't turn a dick into a nice person. many psychologists have tried and failed.

[Anonymous]

Men are just like that. He would rather watch porn of hot women on his cancer death bed than have an ugly woman hold his hand

[Anonymous]

Cause they are desirable men. They want women in their league.

[catarecute]

lol desirable men are very rare yet all men want hot girls.

[Opinion Owner]

No the guy who is not desirable will take an ugly girl, but even ugly girls don't want him they want a desirable man.

[catarecute]

i have never met a desirable man look wise. i have met many who think they are hotter than they think. they are deluded often end up single. most men are pretty average. even justin bieber isn't that good looking he nicer than most and his girlfriend is pretty average.

[Billlewis]

I hope no one would do something like that.

[catarecute]

loads of people do it. mainly people who date without love.

[Billlewis]

That's terrible.

[slatyb]

There are plenty of ugly women who are also mean.