I feel that it wouldn't be right for a guy to pay for 2 tabs on first date, but I'm not sure how to word my sentence. I don't want to make it like yes I'm definitely paying the second, although I'd be willing to. I still want to make it an offer and the guy can decide.
On first dates, I usually would ask "Should we split?" If a guy and I are going to 2 places on first date, should I just also say "Should we split?" on the second tab?