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This guy and I met yesterday on reddit, he was the one who texted me first.

We talked a bit and he was a bit flirty. I would say 'Stop flirting'. And he would ask 'This is flirting?'

We talked a bit about us, what we study and what we plan for the future job.

He wanted to talk to me on some other social media but I said no.

Today, we talked a bit more and he again insisted to talk on another social media.

So we talked a bit on snapchat and I was telling him about my female best friend, I was praising her.

He started joking around how girls being gay are hot and I should marry my best friend if I like her a lot.

I told him I am not gay, most people are straight and if most people were gay, there would be very few children.

He started saying 'oh naughty girl, now you are talking dirty.'

I said sorry (and he said, why are you saying sorry, it is nice!) and told him that I didn't want him to get attracted to me.

He asked, Why not?
I said we just met yesterday, I don't know you well and I just want a male friend.

He said :
Okay then, I don't need you.
Bye bye.

He has not messaged me after that lol.

My boyfriends main love language is acts of service. He wants me to cook, clean, take care of the dogs. Initially he wanted me to do the majority, but then lets split chores. He doesn’t acknowledge that I always keep everything stocked whether it is groceries, soap, toilet paper, his favorite drinks. He doesn’t acknowledge I take care of the dogs 3/4 of the time. He always complains he is picking up my mess, but the reality is we are about even. What I mean by that is I will leave my morning coffee in the sink and he gets upset that I didn’t put it in the dish washer, but then he will make a breakfast for himself &leave all of the dirty dishes. He usually loads the washer &I dry &fold it. He also washes clothes 3x more than I do. So if we have 3 loads maybe 10 things are mine. Last night I had a bad day at work. I made dinner &told him about the day. He was doing the laundry this time, but I wasn’t feeling helping out too much this evening. He got upset that I didn’t put up all the clothes even though I have always folded them and we had always put our own stuff away. I did the dishes and he got mad I missed a utensil. He frantically ran around and kept mouthing how some day it’s got to get better. I am not sure if all of this is normal for someone whose main love language is service. I understand I can always be better, but I had a hard day and I was contributing he was talking to me like I’m worthless then he slept on the couch and left this morning without a word. No matter the fights we get in he always kisses me in the morning. He didn’t take care of the dogs. I don’t always want to fight for what I have and haven’t done. I don’t want to keep a list and tally, but this is kind of strange to me. The crazy part is I found out he lied to me about cheating on his ex wife this weekend and he wanted to kiss me the next morning and I was really upset and he in return got upset so I feel like his standards for me are a little crazy based on his standards of himself.