Search Results: afraid to make a move

How would you talk again with your shy colleague?

I had classes with a colleague in the past 2 semesters, were together at some parties, went drinking 3 times and we text occasionally. The last time we met was in July but I won't be able to see him til October since he...

mingejebemtimater

Xper 2 Age: 29

Should I move to a city closer to my family & friends or stay where I'm at?

3 years ago, I graduated from college and moved to a city on the opposite side of the country. I decided to move because I wanted to get away from my controlling dad, a couple of my ex-girlfriends, and just get a reset on...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls, I'm confused between two guys, one is brave and bold and the other almost too gentle?

One guy is a gentleman and I like spending time with him, but its like he's afraid to make a move or something. The other is tall, strong, brave, bold, and fun. I know where I stand with him, he compliments me, and he...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Moving out and family doesn't approve?

I'm 20 years old almost 21 and I am moving out from under my family to live with my boyfriend of almost 4 years (ldr). I will be moving out of state. We are in the process in closing on the house and my family is not...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girls, How do I handle the aftermath of a fight with the best friend 15 years?

I have a best friend of 15 years. We are both turning 30 this year. We just returned from a vacation together and it ended in our first fight in 10 years. In a nutshell - the hotel we stayed at was very gross and had...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I Wish A Guy Would Reject Me This Way

A clear rejection is always better than a fake promise.- Rihanna A Mohammed If you have ever dated, you’ve been on both ends of rejection. You have done the rejecting and been rejected. I’ve definitely had my fair share...

little_bird1

Guru Age: 37

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Why would a guy show all the interest but not ask you out?

This guy friend of mine shows me all this interest in person during our hang outs but he won't make the move! I don't understand why? He's a confident guy (maybe an introvert also?) and seems to not be afraid to get close...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Can’t make decisions?

Ever. Stay at home mom cannot find anybody watch my children really. I want job though have not worked for years. I been applying jobs indeedz and having seeing , return call? But afraid to make the move. Cuz I got a car...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

What to do if you've been dumped by your girlfriend!

You've been dumped by your one and only love and she was the perfect diamond in the rough you have ever found. It was hard finding her and you ended up losing her, what's worse is that she left you. And what's more...

certifiedalphafemale

Xper 6 Age: 28

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Break Up & Divorce

I want to get my ex back, what can I do?

I understand the best for my health is to move on and forget about it, she is trying to move on but i refuse to accept my 2 year relationship is over just like that. I stopped caring, i have not contacted her in 4...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

I want to show my ex that I have changed, and I want to win back her affection, would this be a good way to do it? (Please answer!)?

Anonymous

(25-29)

2 girls like me and I like them back. I can't seriously date both of them. Who do I pick?

My roommate's birthday is this weekend and I'm throwing him a surprise party with social distancing of course because of COVID-19. I invited 2 girls that are our mutual friends and I think they both like me. I like them...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What is his intention?

I have a crush on this cute guy whose two years younger than me and we haven't really seen each other in real life except once I guess (I don't know if he's seen me be4) . He's like an instagram crush? About a month ago,...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Relationships

Overcoming Depression by Facing the Past

Hey! This mytake will be the only one in a long line of mytakes that isn’t a question, anonymous or otherwise. Take it easy on me, this is my first time. I was inspired to write something about depression, and...

angiebangie

Xper 6 Age: 110

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The misfortune of having paranoia and how it affects daily life even in little ways

Okay, so there are obviously different levels of paranoia and anyone should know that of course, there are also types of paranoia that are triggered by different situations which therefore changes the frequency of a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

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Girls, if you fly to another state to see a guy you're interested in, would you be open to things getting intimate?

This girl and I have been interested in each other for about 5yrs but the only thing stopping us from dating is the 3000 mile distance between us. We often go out for a casual dates whenever I visit her. (We have dated...

Silver89

Xper 4 Age: 37

Education & Career

How to get past childhood bullying in adulthood

All through school i was bullied for lots of different reasons. I've always been very petite so i was easy to push around and I can be shy and awkward at times as well as having learning disabilities and just struggling...

Alice2398

Guru Age: 28

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