Search Results: confidence or insecurity

I mean the jealousy in a relationship. E. g. a guy trying to flirt with someone's girlfriend and that someone becomes jealous.

I automatically connect it with confidence because for me being defensive and jealous needs a lot of confidence. When someone is trying to flirt with someone's s/o and he interferes telling the guy to stop and shit or when a guy tries hard to make eyecontact and the boyfriend just gives him that dangerous look, is something I won't expect from an insecure man. It takes balls to show the competitive nature directly and it's pretty hot and masculine.

The only way I might connect jealousy to insecurity is when it becomes toxic (I call it toxic jealousy) e. g. directed to the girl > the girl is not allowed to go anywhere etc. That's where I might think he is afraid to lose her to someone else thus he is insecure.

I wear only padded bras. I have bigger breasts. I'm thinking about switching to only unpadded bras/bralettes. I feel that padded bras are like a lie to to the world and something women only wear for other people. I have big confidence issues with my breasts so it would be a huge leap. It gives me anxiety thinking about doing it. My breasts are my biggest insecurity. I feel like I would be less attractive.