Search Results: getting attached

How to love myself and my own company?

I’m on this journey where I’m trying to love myself and to love my own company as I've always had somebody by my side and haven’t been alone so much. I moved to the city and away from my family and friends, and as I...

lyrabjane

Xper 2 Age: 25

Would you date a girl with collar bone length hair?

I am having my hair extensions taken out next month (long story) and willl be having my natural hair length which is collar bone length (hopefully it will have grown slightly longer in a month!). Im really worried I won't...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Family & Friends

None of us like getting disciplined

Discipline is difficult to go through. No one likes it. Here's another truth, nobody likes to be an undisciplined person. I believe that a healthy lifestyle is not a competition! Parents are supposed to offer the most...

Unbeatable

Xper 5 Age: 26

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Is this deep or is it me?

So my boyfriend and I have been talking for over a year now and at the beginning of us getting to know each other he used to randomly bring up his ex in conversations. And he kept doing that for a while. He’s always told...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What does it mean when someone blocks you on messenger but not on Facebook and they are still your fb friend?

So this guy I've been seeing we was on the video chat and honestly I've been irritated with him so I was like I'm getting off the chat take care and I hung up so I guess he blocked me, it seems like since we been having...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Society & Politics

Mostly for: ANTI VACCINE PEEPS, Are You Surprised On How Mad Some Pro Vaccine People Get At Others Who Aren't Getting the Shot?

This post isn't to make anyone mad . Rude comments against anti or pro vaccine people will be removed. I am not going to get a brand new vaccine that may have side effects on me. That being said, I still take...

bannacookies

Guru Age: 28

Guy might have dropped me, not sure what to think?

There’s this guy in my apartment building I’ve been seeing for the last month. We kind of pursued each other and there’s definitely been mutual interest and connection, but it fell into more of a friends with benefits...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Birthday Card Can embarrass?

I've been dating a guy for a couple of months, and even before this we were really good friends. I've known him for 2 years now, and we dated on and off. However, he hit me up again this year and I decided to give him...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What do I do if I feel like all im good for is making money and bearing pain quietly?

I want children in the future and a husband badly but I am so very shy and can't open to anyone? Im robotic. Maybe I would've been better as a man. I am very emotional i just dont show it to pretty much anyone. I get...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guys, OLDER guys how would I go about convincing this guy that age is not that important. He keeps emphasizing that he's older** as if?

He's brought up his age in so many ways it's a little annoying. I have a feeling it's his way of keeping from getting too attached/attracted as in between this age-mentioning we get along very well.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Other

Why is it hard for me to be close to others?

Whenever I start making friends with men, I instantly feel uncomfortable if they aren't what I see as datable but get lovey dovey if I see them as datable? I don't mean to be this way, but it's hard for me to be close...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I’m too easily confused 😅?

I know for us women sometimes we’re distant with a potential partner when we’re afraid to get attached due to the risk of being hurt or the person has pushed us away before when we showed interest. Do guys do the same...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How do you know when a dismissive avoidant is into you?

How do you know? They're not as upfront with their feelings and emotions. Their communication isn't great and providing actions could possibly be a sign of weakness to them as they don't wanna be perceived as getting...

RedGamer

Xper 4 Age: 37

If a guy ask to see me again after 3rd date, is that a good sign?

We've been texting everyday for a month and went for 3 dates. We get along very well and I can feel the chemistry between us. He getting closer to me and its like he can't get enough of my company. And we still texting...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is he cheating on me or am I just being paranoid?

So, long story short. I have been seeing/dating this guy for 1.5 years. He is nice and compatible with me. But sometimes I feel he is more attached to his batchmate from his college days. She is a year or so older than...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Am I being paranoid or is there something to it?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

What is the best way to put my foot down with my ex? I am struggling to get the right tone and try to find a good way to get my message across?

Hi! My ex and I dated for almost 3 years. In December she dumped me because of some issues that are very easy to work around (I don't feel like getting into exact details). I worked to try and improve myself. In...

jandreson30193

Xper 4 Age: 28