I've been dating a guy for a couple of months, and even before this we were really good friends. I've known him for 2 years now, and we dated on and off. However, he hit me up again this year and I decided to give him another chance because I truly liked him. He told me straight up he is leaving another college in the fall, so he doesn't want to start something serious (he's 20 so am I ) and I wasn't really opposed to it because I didn't want to get attached, and either way wasn't getting my hopes up because I'm more focused on other things. Hence - our situationship started. [ Many of you know how this goes- you both are going out on dates, talking every day, but the catch is you guys are not "official". ] I realized however going into 4 months of bliss that my previous feelings , strong feelings were coming back. I knew he has a lot of things going on in his personal life, so I didn't want to tell him… I fell in love with him. Its such a weird feeling to me since I have never fell in love before nor did I ever catch feelings this strong. Usually I do not get attached. He was definitely different. So... I ended things. He genuinely never did anything bad specific (treated me very well) but because I couldn't have this commitment I was scared he would be talking to other girls which would gut me, so I ended things as soon as I admitted I was in love with him. I never told him, I just messaged him I decided I am looking for something a bit more committed. He said he respected my decision and this caught him by surprise. Question: His birthday is coming up, and I was just going to do the typical Instagram/text message (we still follow each other: he watched my stories, and he liked my posts, he sent me memes after we ended) but I was wondering would I embarrass myself by sending him a birthday card in the mail? (I've been to his house many times, vise versa) He's had a really tough year, so I wanted to send a friendly card (with keychain he likes) than a message.
I think you should do it, why not? I'm sure he will be very surprised and not at all freaked out. It's actually a cute Idea.
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Do you have any idea how he really feels about you? Did you ever ask?
Just send it, it's a nice gesture and it would make him happy.
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