Search Results: how many exes do you have

Is it wrong that I’m aware that I’m more attractive than my boyfriend and he probably won’t find a girl like me easily?

And I mean purely for looks he won’t meet someone like me easily and she’ll be into him? I’ve showed my family and friends his photos and they all think he either looks nerdy or like a serial killer and odd. I’m aware I...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I’m so upset and confused?

Why does my boyfriend act like I’m not here he came home yesterday from work ignoring all night then this morning won’t talk to me won’t answer my text I it’s cliché to say I didn’t do anything but I really didn’t do...

Raphtaila

Xper 4 Age: 29

All his exes are dark haired, I’m a redhead.. I feel like he’ll never be satisfied with me because I’m not his type? Is this dumb?

There’s a guy I’m crazy for. We’ve been seeing each other and he seems totally attracted to me no doubt. The attraction and fire is there between us but when I look on his social media.. he definitely shows a preference...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why do I keep feeling that my boyfriend is happier with his exes? What should I do?

I looked at his old pics with his exes and he looked happier, like he can laugh wider and more freely. They went out a lot and tbh we don’t. I keep thinking that why does he treat me differently and why does he never ask...

Anonymous

(25-29)

When your family is worried you're not finding love anytime soon as you're aging?

So I'm 25, I've had 4 boyfriends, and 1 was longer than a year but we were long distance. I've had hookups after the dating stage, realized it wasn't for me but i wanted to try it. Now I've been alone, and my family has...

Kkstarzz96

Xper 6 Age: 29

Break Up & Divorce

Has anyone's exes come back after a few months?

He is a great dad to our kids, has treated me with respect, and is trying to make sure I am cared for. I asked for space to heal (with the exception of anything to do with our kids, visits etc) except he keeps messaging...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How do you tell a woman that she is unstable? Should I just lie about the reason?

I'll try to keep it short. I met up with a woman I matched with on tinder a while back. Basically, she was a little weird during dinner, said some red flag stuff, nothing too bad I guess, but she was hot and asked to...

wtf636

Xper 5 Age: 39

Is it normal for a man to not have guy friends and only be friends with his exes?

My boyfriend is in his 40’s and doesn’t seem to have any male friends. Maybe one or two who don’t live close by (I did meet one). He is however close friends with almost all his exes. He talks to them about me and I don’t...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Which boy would you choose as a long term partner?

Boy A: extremely good looking with green eyes, an athletic body, tall, charming, nice hair & probably one of the most gorgeous man you will ever meet. He is however a narcissist. Boy A has his own business and has a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

When you’re in love with someone does it make you see them as physically more beautiful than they are to others?

I really am in love with this guy.. I love him, for the first time I’ve ever been in love so I’m asking this. When we first met there were physical things about him that I was almost turned off from, like his upper...

Anonymous

(30-35)

If your boyfriend did this, Would you approach him about it? Or would you not make big deal out of it?

I’m always with and around my boyfriend. I’m always back and forth between his house and mines. I even go to work from his house most times but I will leave him for a few days to do other things. Recently I had left him...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Do you think it ODD for a partner to think of exes when considering your body, even if it is in a sense positively, or is this NORMAL?

Example: “I find you hotter a bit thicker. My exes were sticks and in retrospect they were kinda superficial & shallow…. Ig my tastes changed and on its own physically, I’m just not turned on by “skinny” but obviously I...

VIVANT

Guru Age: 28

Example: “I find you hotter a bit thicker. My exes were sticks and in retrospect they were kinda superficial & shallow…. Ig my tastes changed and on its own physically, I’m just not

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Girl's Behavior

Was it rude of me to laugh at my exes new girlfriends face?

I was out tonight with a group of friends and ran into my recent ex. My recent ex was not the best boyfriend. He was abusive towards me and moved on fast. I found out about his new girlfriend last year when one of his...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why does this keep happening to me?

At the risk of sounding like a complete nice guy, I have to say, why the fuck do I keep getting friend zoned. Two of my exes confessed that they had no romantic feelings at all, one even apologising because she thought...

not_a_twinkie

Xper 5 Age: 24

How to cut off a friend of a decade?

He’s been sex conditioned deeply.. he’s spread his wings to women and is playing both fields. When things don’t work out with his trashy women he’s ready to come back to me. ( nothing sexually) - companionship and I want...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Girl's Behavior

Why would a man mistreat an ex girlfriend who never did anything to him except love him?

So me and my ex boyfriend had discussed getting back together after being broken up for a few months. He is the one who asked to and also he agreed to the terms I asked of him. I no longer trusted him-which was part of...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

What is some advice for someone feeling stuck in their love life? Christian advice is welcomed.(?)?

To keep a long story short, I cut off all the guys that were not good for me (long term). I chose to do that because I felt like I deserved more than the crumbs they gave me. I understand that there were somethings I...

kls620

Xper 5 Age: 26

Entertainment & Arts

My boyfriend hates when I sing should I be okay with that?

I’m a professional singer. I sing a lot of musical theater of all genres (rock, pop..) etc. I perform consistently and have played many lead roles in musicals such as grease, hairspray, mamma Mia, etc. and have been...

Anonymous

(30-35)