If your boyfriend did this, Would you approach him about it? Or would you not make big deal out of it?

[Anonymous]

I’m always with and around my boyfriend. I’m always back and forth between his house and mines. I even go to work from his house most times but I will leave him for a few days to do other things. Recently I had left him so that I could hang out with my mom and sister. I was back with him a few days after that and stayed with him up until today because today I’m hanging out with a friend of mines. So I’m at home, scrolling on Tik Tok waiting to meet up with my friend and I see a video that lets me know he was around his ex not long ago. He didn’t know I would see because what he doesn’t know is, his ex added me on tik tok a while back. She never post videos of herself on there though. Her daughter uses her tik tok and makes videos on there instead and usually I see those videos on my feed often but this time was different. I got on Tik tok to see that a few days ago, after I had left him to hang out with my mom and sister, his exes daughter made a tik tok with his son (who isn’t my son. He had a child before meeting me) and the only way that would happen is if my boyfriend is around his ex so nonetheless I decided to look at more videos from that same day and I saw my boyfriend in the back walking past in a second tik Tok video their kids had made and the funny thing is on that day he never mentioned that he went over there and he was being really on and off with texting me that day as well and I guess this explains why.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

You need to approach him if he is involved with a video that
his Daughter made, yes you have every right to wonder about him
this could be red flags if he has kids with another woman they will
all be in the picture is how I see things

[Anonymous]

That's suspicious. Why does he hang around his ex so much? What's their deal?

[Asker]

I don't know and I just know when I approach him about it he’s gonna use the kids as an excuse to why he was there. He’s gonna say something like he wanted his son to have someone to play with and wanted him to hang around other kids (kid) but he has nieces and nephews who comes over his house often but yet he went out of his way to go to his exes house and have his son be around her daughter. His exes daughter, she’s not even his daughter, he was playing step dad when he was with her.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah he'd use that as an excuse and seems like he's still playing step dad to the exes daughter at this point and they're all like a little family with you gone. And the fact that he wasn't responding too much to you while there just doesn't sit right with me. Sorry you're going through this.

[moviedude714]

He has a kid from a previous relationship?