Search Results: lack of confidence
Why do some shy, insecure women flee when they find out their crush likes them back?
Life has built-in programming: seek pleasure/comfort/safety, and avoid pain. Most shy women are nervous and guarded when they're uncertain if a guy likes them, but are thrilled and relax a lot when they find out the...
Have you been attention seeking this year at all?
I desperately wanted some attention and I realised that I had quite a few outbreaks of anger. I'm the type of person who is always available for others. It's something I've grown up learning to be. I didn't really have...
Why is fat shaming not ok but smoker shaming is ok?
NOTE: I'm neither fat nor a smoker. In our pc society, we are allowed to have separate smoking sections or to tell people to stop smoking. Some commonalities: -Smoking and fat shaming are unhealthy. -Both can...
Have you ever had to explain a long break alone when you started dating? Did some people think it was weird so hard to get dates?
Life happened. A marriage separation at the same time as my mom died. Then a divorce after a couple years. Busy raising a daughter and some health stuff. Then after awhile I just sort of gave up on the idea of dating and...
What will better my chance with women? or better said, display more confidence, well-spoken or holding strong eye contact?
I need all my guys and my girls to chime in on this question. I think a lot of men are going about it incorrectly. One thing I know is I have trouble holding eye contact to just about anyone genuine when they listen or...
Girls, what would a man have to do to impress you as a potential date candidate if he is short, unattractive looking, overweight, poor, and knows it?
I have my own ideas of these criteria (less than six feet/183 cm as an adult male as short , less than a 7/10 as unattractive , BMI over 32 with no muscle as fat , earning less than $27k a year/$13 an hour as poor ),...
How do I accept that I'll be single my whole life?
The worst thing is knowing that nothing you do will make a difference in finding someone to date. My life is like this: (this is what it's like being me) A) I sign up for online dating. I set up a nice profile, no...
Time to just give up on my fellow man seeing as most lack critical thinking skills?
Because most men don't want truths. Most guys are leftist and rather live in a magical land of make believe and pixie farts. If I point out that height, jawline, hairline, job, status, surroundings and so on all...
Do you agree that telling kids that santa isn't real screws them up mentally as adults?
One of the most important lessons we learn is that people don't tell the truth. They may deliberately seek to mislead us or they may innocently pass on nonsense through their own ignorance. The ability to critically...
Height, looks, muscles and charisma makes guys attractive NOT CONFIDENCE?
Do you people truly think women are flapping to this ugly guy Steve with high confidence, nice personality but lacks everything else. If anything people think high confident ugly guys are arrogant no matter how kind they...
What is your another side as a person that you dont like about?
I'm soft in a lot of matters consider people i care which sometimes its turn back and kill me slowly. I lack confidence and making desicion when its come to something involve feelings. I take others feelings over myself,...
Why are some women completely flat chested?
This isn't meant to shame anyone just curious. My friend is 28 and has always had confidence issues or her breasts or lack thereof. She is all nipple as is said. she's not underweight or particularly skinny, i know...
If someone says they respect you but don't acknowledge you as a person (eg mean try to make you fit a mold) and do/say things that are rude is it?
This guy said he respected me yet did not acknowledge I was different from my brother, who worked for him prior, despite how from the start I was obviously more qualified. This guy kept bringing my brother up in...
If most people hate outcasts then why don't they just ghost us instead of provoking us?
I'm an outcast because of my lack of attractiveness, money, natural confidence amount other superficial things I assumed that most people would cast me off & leave me alone but I was very surprised by how much banter...
My story and why young women need to stop searching for physical validation on social media from men
I know im no one but i really want to help girls on here from my own past mistakes. I see so many young girls on this site sexulising themselves on here and posting selfies desperate for mens validation purely based on...
Post College Dating for Men 2020?
Just graduated with my bachelors in business, I have a job lined up to start in January 2021. I am in fairly decent shape, I work out nearly everyday, I should be able to hit 6pack abs by June. I'm currently in a masters...
There's this older guy who seems to want an affair with me. What are good strategies to avoid awkwardness?
He's a coworker and quite popular. Maybe he's very used to this because he did seem very keen on me and still does, and even though he's often quite nervous when I'm around, he's been quite straight forward after all. So...
Why Religion is Not for Intelligent, Logical, People.
Pretty simple. There are thousands of religions, and many philosophical explanations for who we are and why we are here. Some are similar, others diametrically opposed. One thing they have in common is none of them are...
Any advice on difficult colleague, and next steps?
I work with a colleague that negatively effects the serenity of the team. Advice from you, for remedies? She told HR confidentially, that she has “a diagnosis of depression” . Our manager told us that she is prob...
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