If most people hate outcasts then why don't they just ghost us instead of provoking us?

I'm an outcast because of my lack of attractiveness, money, natural confidence amount other superficial things

I assumed that most people would cast me off & leave me alone but I was very surprised by how much banter & attention was thrown at me
If most people hate outcasts then why don't they just ghost us instead of provoking us?
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