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Shit now i really gotta get back in the gym and stuff 🤣 My cuzzo just asked me to be in her wedding next year. I was honestly shocked cause she stay flakin so she def wasn't in mine anymore. When she asked me, she said “im still in yours right?” I tried to float around giving an answer by saying “Well i kinda gotta be in a relationship again first” 😂🤷‍♀️ But yea, i haven't been in a wedding since like age 3 (my other cousins wedding) and age 12 (my dads wedding) both of which I was the miniature bride. She’s already tellin me i gotta wear a dress and nearly fainted when i jokingly suggested a pantsuit 😝 But hey at least she said i can wear my sneakers under the dress since it drags along the floor.
#FeelFreeToList #WhosWeddingIsItAnyway

I kinda wanna talk about this issue because how men react to emotion is alarming. Put aside what your dads and your moms told you, men, "men don't cry", "act like a man", "you're being a ____"--

I want to know do all men actually feel like you can't express yourself to anyone? Leave the 'no homo' thing behind, leave the pride behind and actually say this. I've allowed the anon button for you who want to express yourself on this situation.

If you don't know what toxic masculinity is, it's you telling a man/boy/kid to not cry bc men "don't cry", they "don't share" or "show emotion" or they're "weak". I'm gonna be honest but that really bothers us women (leaving the closure and the relationships to the side) because we want to know, if you're a friend or a stranger that you're ok. The rates for suicide for men are so high and it's because they're taught to suppress their feelings and usually that creates a problem in a relationship for someone whether they're from the lgbtq community or in a straight relationship. Abuse sometimes happens because they're taught to suppress feelings. So I want to know. What do YOU think about toxic masculinity? Remember this is anon so technically (hopefully) you feel you're safe here (: