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I would like to hear from the other women. Not the women who were duped by cheating men. I mean the women who know full well that a man is taken, and they still have a serious interest in pursuing a relationship with him or splitting the couple up.

In my youth I messed with a few men who were cheating, but I never ever had an interest in taking any of them! I would not want a man who is already cheating and planning to leave his woman for me. Why would anyone else? I would also never disrespect the woman who is his actual partner. I never understood that either. If the woman being cheated on finds out, what is the point in blaming her or undermining her or attacking her? She's the victim...

Why don't women just get along like in The Other Woman movie? Where's the Sis Code, the girl version of the Bro Code? Women are just sitting at home minding their own business trying to raise families, and their men are bringing home STD's, extra children, and draaaama! It's a never ending nightmare in the lives of humanity.

Witnessing the transition covid 19 pandemic, as far as all of the day to day adjustments regarding close and distant contact with Friends family S O and strangers; I feel like I get a small glimpse into How it would feel too love love and have sex ore A I D S and after. (We can include With A I D S syphilis Ghonorrea Chlamydia Herpes simplex and many other std goodies, but A I D S was most prevalent as national concern )

Sex, once being something people entered into into a lot more freely - with concerns but disease maybe not Being high on the list. Suddenly became something rather disconcerting: Should we , shouldn’t we, Wait period, can I trust you physiologically etc. Completely different world and approach to everyone in it in one lifetime. I don’t think everyone Experiences enormous shifts like that. War is smother of course. As well as liberation movements. For a while people were wirrued about touching anything and anyone near them bc there was so Much mystery surrounding everything. Eventually the myths were gradually struck down, people calmed down and Releasing their vigilant mental grip against A I D S now having a better idea what they were dealing with. You can’t get it from spot or washing hands it touching un lacerated skin. Etc

Well we are in a similar situation - romantically- with covid 19 though its more Challenging in ways bc we have to deal with air droplets skin context and saliva exchange. ~~~ Forget about sex!!~~try making out without any of those ingredients 😎

Now maybe for very young people IF they grow up having to test blood before scoring first base, it will seem normal. But for people who grew up walking into a bar and leaving With a hook up, kissing a date a sweet good night as an indication you are happy with the way things are progressing and would like to continue getting acquainted—This huge potential shift in what “ cautious” means will be very disorienting
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