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We have been friends with benefits since fall 2018. We were friends before that. He made a move one day and it's become an ongoing thing. We've been monogamous. We said we'd stop if we start seeing someone else. He's hasn't. We spend a lot of time together. We've grabbed food and drinks, we've gone for drives, we've gone on hikes too. We have conversations about ourselves. We always get intimate because we can't keep our hands off eachother. I've met friends when he took me golfing one day. He said he didn't know they were there even though he goes with them every Sunday. He said they liked me. I haven't met his family. His sister has seen me before when he invited me over to his house one day to help him/keep him company while he worked on his construction project. She was home but I wasn't formally introduced. She was waiting for me in the front bay window when I arrived. But left when I went inside. He said it felt weird having me over. His parents weren't home but they are rarely home anyways. He has stayed the night at my house before. He sleeps over when my parents are on vacation. He stayed this past weekend. He arrived from his vacation that same day so he went home to drop off his luggage, shower, grab some things and came straight over. He was messaging me a lot throughout his vacation, telling me what he was doing and showing me pictures. When he stayed over, we drank, played games and watched a tv and were sexually intimate a few times throughout the evening. He fell asleep spooning me on the couch. I had to wake him up so we could go my bed. When we got there he continued spooning me and fell asleep again. He woke up in the middle of the night, he caressed me awake and we were intimate then fell asleep for a few more hours. When we woke up, he watched tv and I made him breakfast - waffles from scratch. We continued watching tv until he left to go home. He also brought me back a souvenir.

I have been talking to this guy for a few weeks. We have a lot in common, were both looking for a relationship. He has said/done things like :
- we will get through this together
- you're worth waiting for
- i told my parents and friends about you
- i have this overwhelming feeling/ thoughts about us and i don't want to scare you away.
- "only for you " with a kissy face emoji
- im in this for the long run
-he stopped playing a game to talk to me
-talking while he is at work
-he sent a picture of his whole package
-he says he cares about me a lot and wants to give things a chance and he's not letting me go easy

He seems the type to take care of his girl and do things for her and not worry about himself.. wearing his heart on his sleeve. he's determined and he seems the type to like PDA. He hasn't been on a date in years and last relationship he had was toxic. When i would try to push him away thinking it wasn't going to work he was determined not to let me go and give things a chance.