Yes, you're a couple. You most definitely earned today's award!
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Congratulations!
Your question is today's Question of the Day illustrating that Friends With Benefits is an illusion because eventually one of them will get emotionally involved as if in a couple.
It's not a question of "if" it's going to happen, but "when".
If it is any consolation, in December 1988 just before I turned 26, I was involved in this intense 2.5 week F W B situation (*) with my roommate. I was very emotionally involved, but, for her, I was just a convenient lay between more "serious BF"s.
So, was I a stupid fool? Yes and no. I knew better, but I wanted what I got into and paid the price. I learned through The School of Hard Knocks just like you are...
(*) This is long before "Friends With Benefits" became "a thing". No one said that 30+ years ago let alone thought it because it would be considered an embarrassment to sink to that level. Apparently, being a slut or manwhore doesn't matter in today's "hook-up culture".
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Guys don't like labels. We like our independence. Pretty simple.
Well he getting everything what he needs in a girlfriend without any responsibility. It seems u r wasting ur time wd him. he hasn't confessed his feelings to u. u hv confessed ur feelings. Go for a serious relationship wd someone else
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No. He is getting all he wants out of you without having to put up with the bullshit parts of a relationship.
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