When I first met this guy, lets call him Joe, I wasn't initially attracted to him. However, after spending time with him along with other friends I began to get attracted to him because of his personality. One day a Joe, the rest of my friends, and I were getting ready to go out and I noticed his cousin, whom I had met te day before, was still in the house. I asked Joe why his cousin wasn't coming. Joe responded by saying "oh so you want my cousin to come" in a joking manner. I responded that I was just wondering. Later that night his cousin popped up at the club we went to and was flirting with me. It didn't seem to bother Joe and he didn't show any signs that he was into me so I gave his cousin my number. Me and his cousin began to hang out and one night his cousin ended up spending a night at my house. Nothing major happened. Although I refused to kiss him in return, he started to kiss all over my body and offered oral. I refused oral but allowed him to stay above the waist only becauase it felt good and had been a really long time since I have a sexual encounter. Afterwards, I stopped answering his phone calls because I was turned off by his willingness to give me oral sex without knowing me for a long time. About a two weeks later, me and my other friends were out late and I was somewhat tipsy so Joe said I could spend the night at his place so that I would have to drive drunk. At his place, we started off watching a movie and ended up cuddled in his bed. While we where laying there(keep in mind Joe is drunk) I asked him if he though it was weird or odd that he was cuddled all up on me when he knows his cousin likes me. He said that he figured me and his cousin wasnt working out so it didn't matter. Then I told him that I had initially liked him from the beginning and I only talked to his cousin bcuz I thought he wasnt interested. He then told me that he was interested in me from the start but thought I wasnt into him. After some days passed I tried to play dumb and act like l didn't remeber what we talked about that night bcuz I was wasted. I asked him what we talked about that night, and he just responded by saying "random things and he was 2 drunk 2 remember". After I told him what he said he wasnt lookin for a relationship because he just got out of 1. The next time we kicked it, he ended up giving me oral. Another time after that he ended up giving me oral again. I never did anything in return. Last night I told him we need to define our "thing". He said he didn't know how to classify it, we were just chilling, and asked me what I thought it was. I told him we were "friends with benefits with no feelings involved...basically, outside of the bedroom its as if it doesn't exist." He then told me that we have a friendship outside of the other stuff and that he thought I was being shallow. Do you think he wanted to be more than friends w/benefits? Does he have feelings for me? Does he think I'm easy?
I know its a lot to read, but I would really appreciate your answers and comments!
I really need answers people!