I read your details and get the impression that you want to keep the friendship platonic. But when I read your replies I got the impression that you wanted a long-term relationship.
If the former is true, then let him know and then only meet in public places. If he manipulates you, block him.
But if you want a long term but non sexual for now, tell him with full details.
Then see his reaction and if he manipulates the situation.
With this, you decide what to do next.
PS: I hate people who are manipulative. I usually have zero dealings with them.
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Yes just ask him. But if that is what and all he wants, you already know (or feel) that you could develop feelings, so don't do it if he's not on the same page. And be honest with him about that. Being you've been friends for so long (depending on how good your relationship already is, I'm assuming pretty good?), he would be a good person to have that type of relationship with as communication is extremely important. But, not if you're going to risk feelings. Example he says yes I'd like to try fwbs, you're response should be "no I'm sorry, I know that I can't handle that type of relationship as I'll likely become attached"
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Did he get hard while spooning? Why did his ast 4 in 4 not work out?
He doesn't want anything more than free sex. If you do friends with benefits you will end up hurt.
Yes the lucky guy would love to be friends with benefits with you!
Yes, be direct and ask
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