I don’t know if this guy likes me as more than a friend. So we've been friends for about a year (but not good friends until earlier this year) but only since May we’ve been allowed to date/hang out outside of school (he used to work for my university). So basically the last time i saw him before he didn’t work at my uni anymore he said ‘i’m quitting soon so we can hang out’. He did contact me a few times to hang out, but I couldn’t the first time. He’s a bad texter and doesn’t communicate well over text, but when I inquired about hanging out he did ask me the next night to and we did and had a great time (he was also affectionate, holding my hand, touching my lower back/waist, tickling me, putting his arms around me, just very touchy and his demeanor was definitely romantic) but then we hung out today and it seemed a more friend atmosphere, though we did spend 6 and a half hours at a park talking and walking around. The problem is we agree to a time/place to hang out in person, I don’t really hear from him that much until I see him (once a week for three weeks now). I invited him over to my house to watch a movie (really just watch nothing else) and he initially agreed but then said he didn’t want to come over to my house until my parents knew of him as a friend of mine for a while (I live w them as I am 21). This kinda made me feel bad bc he referred to himself as a friend. But also I will admit i’m a bit more reserved in person, but I feel like i’m always asking him to hang out (which he agrees to always and seems as though he wants to). He also used to comment I was beautiful but doesn’t so much anymore, but does comment if I get my nails done/compliments my clothes. I just don’t know what to think. Thoughts?
He likes you but he probably is scared that your parents won't like it that a random guy they never have seen before comes over to "watch a movie" with their daughter. I wouldn't feel comfortable either honestly because being a guy isn't always easy when you date a girl and come over to the girls house when the parents never seen you before. You hear lots of negative story's about guys taking advantage of woman and only wanne have sex so parents can be pretty carefull when their daughter starts dating guys. Im always scared to meet a girls parents and hope for the best but I always expect harsh questioning from parents. I had very difficult first time meetings with parents in the past and some of them really wanne know everything before they accept that I hang out with their daughter. Very awkward and unpleasant moments can those situations be tbh
I would wanne visit you in the beginning more outside of your parents watchfull eyes instead of meeting you and then inmedietly at your house to "watch a movie". The last thing you want as a guy is giving her parents the idea that you are just there to have sex with their daughter. I would wanne avoid them thinking like that at all cost
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Ask him out. I asked out this girl I fell in love with. Ended up getting turned down, but at least I don’t have to get my hopes up in possibility dating her. I wish you good luck instead of my downfall.
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