Search Results: too needy

Will I seem needy if I’m always the one asking to hangout?

I’ve been seeing this guy for almost 3 months now and at the start we would mutually ask each other to hangout (we see each other 2-3 times a week) however in the past month and a half I find it’s always me initiating...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should you be honest about why you’re break up?

I made a post back in October about my girlfriend having a male bestie too close. A guy whom she traveled the world with, and he’s the ex husband of a girl she used to be friends with. I’ve mentioned before that her...

Anonymous

(36-45)

I made a post back in October about my girlfriend having a male bestie too close. A guy whom she traveled the world with, and he’s the ex husband of a girl she used to be friends with.

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Looking for some advice with my ex?

Myself and my ex split about 1 year ago. We were very close and we've remained very pleasant and and in contact this past year. She even wished it could all work out, but obviously I was cautious about the whole thing,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

We had agreed on something casual, why would he ghost me?

So, this guy had been chasing me for a long time and had talked to my friends about me. Since I am moving abroad, he tried so hard to convince me I better stay here and postpone that plan. Later, he asked me out and told...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Am I considered a loser if my girlfriend and older brother double-crossed me?

We broke up because she’s cheated on me twice with my older brother. I gave her a 2nd chance because her reason for cheating was because I was being too needy. I promised that time that I’ll respect her space even though...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guys, Do you find it flattering if a girl that you have a crush on likes you back a lot and pursues you even if you already have a girlfriend?

She lets you know that she likes you too by messaging and calling you, just enough, not in a stalkerish needy way.

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is silence the best revenge after a breakup?

Recently my boyfriend of 1 year, break up with me because i was too needy- it was not a clean break up, just got blocked over night- if at first i rant some sort of anger because of the blocking, i was blocked again. This...

Anonymous

(30-35)

He wants me to apologize for cheating and abusing him even if it's 3 years ago. Why is it my problem he can't move on?

Not gonna lie (IDGAF what you say), I cheated on him repeatedly and assaulted him physically, because he was being needy and immature. Plus, we're just on a boyfriend/girlfriend level, we're not married so technically I'm...

Anonymous

(30-35)

An old acquaintence of mine?

So there's this guy who I've known for several years who really wanted to be reconnect as friends earlier in the year but came off as a bit needy. He would go weeks without contacting me, and never wrote anything too...

Emma1121

Xper 3 Age: 34

I’ve never had a girlfriend and I’m 27?

I just sabotaged the first girl I really felt I could be in a relationship with and where I felt it was mutual our liking for each other. I was too needy and clingy I feel. I also felt like I was a rebound so I was...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Advice about online dating?

Hey guys, i just started talking a guy over a datin app. We only met yesterday and haven’t talked that much but i like him a lot. But we have a time difference (different countries) and he probably can't see my message...

jenniegray

Xper 4 Age: 27

Relationships

Is typing ily instead of typing I love you wrong?

My boyfriend tells me how much he loves me all throughout the day and we talk constantly. He’s very clingy and I actually like rather needy men. The only issue is eventually after texting I love you for the 3 time that...

Anonymous

(25-29)

My boyfriend tells me how much he loves me all throughout the day and we talk constantly. He’s very clingy and I actually like rather needy men. The only issue is eventually after

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Relationships

Is this emotional gaslighting or could it be true?

I was telling my boyfriend that it isn't fair that I feel like I put effort in and go out of my way to be there and support him and let him know that he is appreciated yet it doesn't seem reciprocated through his actions....

Anonymous

(18-24)

Other

Why would a guy say “She needs me”?

My crush is very helpful at work and he also likes me back. Then one day I had overheard him talking to somebody saying “She needs me”. And there would be other times whenever we’re near each other, his friends would mock...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Are guys extremely good actors or WHY are they so interested in the beginning but then fades? Do they fake it all?

Things are great, the girl is far from needy, and then after a few times of hanging out- his initiative fades drastically. This is something I hear over and over again in the majority of cases among me and my friends. It...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Family & Friends

Does this come off as needy? For a family member, friend or a partner? How can I rephrase it to make it less needy I guess?

When I visit people I plan. A lot. I like to plan and to have a plan. I will usually send a message like this: Hey I'm going to be in town in a couple weeks and I would love to see you. Id like if we could do these...

friendlymbflirty

Xper 5 Age: 35