I’ve never had a girlfriend and I’m 27?

[Anonymous]

I just sabotaged the first girl I really felt I could be in a relationship with and where I felt it was mutual our liking for each other. I was too needy and clingy I feel. I also felt like I was a rebound so I was jealous towards the end when we she hung with other guys. We weren’t exclusive but I was still jealous. I’ve had sex with a lot of women and been in fake relationships where it’s really only about me fucking them. I’m just in it for the sex. This was the only time I felt I was on to something. How do I control my urges and not be needy and clingy. Because I also have a cold side to me where I won’t say what’s on my mind but my actions will tell you I’m mad.

[Browneye57]

You lack a basic understanding of what women are, how they think, what makes them tick. And you need a man-makeover. Your game is awful, and you whine too much.

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[boggboss]

By noticing the negative behaviour u showed her and making sure to work on it

[whatdoyouwantt]

Well nobody wants to be a rebound so for the start look for a girl who won’t make you one.


Secondly maybe it comes within yourself, you are insecure? Maybe try to find reasons why you feel that way. What do you lack on and try to fix it. Also try to love yourself.


Third I’d say don’t get in relationships if you don’t see them as an actual girlfriend. Rather tell them that you are looking for sex buddies. It will be fair for both of you and you’ll feel better.

[Idk_Just_watching]

Take your time with it. Like you saw with that woman, you’re capable of being in love so just wait for the right girl. There might be one out there that enjoys the clingy side 🤷🏼‍♂️

[Dinosaursandanime65]

Stab yourself each time you do something that considered a “big no no”. My intelligence should not be underestimated

[Anonymous]

My younger brother is your exact same age and he's never been on a single date in his whole life

[wankiam]

is there a quetion attatched to this statement?

[appach98]

Not all that rare mate, trust me.