Would you date someone who has 3 young children?

[coachTanthony]

Yes of course

No too much baggage

Other ( see comment )

[BBrash]

I think realistically it would put a lot of strain on the relationship when you're trying to get to know the individual on a deeper personal level (emotionally, sexually etc)

Sure there's people out there who could do it.

My husband and I have a 1 year old. Attempting to make love when Elmo's World suddenly comes on (very loudly) in the other room, has deflated my man more than once. Normal, logical conversations are usually interrupted by a temper tantrum that resulted from a jar of pomade that cannot be retrieved from the toilet. Don't get me wrong, it's a happy, fun stage of life... if you already have a solid, well built relationship as a foundation. But going into a relationship without that foundation... and 3? It's not for the faint of heart!! XD

Young children require a lot of one-on-one care. With 3, I wouldn't expect much time at all with the person I'm trying to get to know. That alone would be a deal breaker. Not so much the kids, but the stage in life they are at.

[CrabCakes11]

No, simply because I don’t want kids. Not baggage

[OlderAndWiser]

If I was single. . . and some 20something or 30something wanted to date me? I might wonder "what's wrong with her" but would probably agree to a date out of curiosity. And who knows what might happen?

When I was younger and single, I certainly dated many single moms.

[exitseven]

sorry but I would like to date somebody that would have the time and energy to have a real relationship with me,

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[LordMadara]

children are curse when you in a relationship with your partner 😒

birthdays, visits to dentist/ hospitalz, school reports (bad or good), complaints by other members of society bout mischievious conduct of your partners kids

the list is limitless 🙄🤦🏾‍♂️

[DarkLegacy]

I can add in you will never be put first, having to spend money on the kids and what if your partner doesn't want anymore kids but you do.

[Rhizomorph]

Hellll no, that’s just sooo extra. Then you have to not be selfish & act like you “actually give a shit” during the moments where he may talk about his kids or show you silly photos of the goofy family stuff captured. Even talking to someone who has 1 kid is kind of annoying lol Sorry not sorry if that sounds mean

[Pohjolan]

Maybe if she is otherwise top tier.

Like there was this one MILF in Jujutsu class whose proportions feminists would call a impossible beauty standard if one would make a video character with the same curves.

[OfMiceandMen]

I don't think so, they are likely too busy for me.

[DarkLegacy]

Do you want the short answer or the long answer. the short answer is no. The long answer is: NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO, NO...

[worldscolide]

It depends. If said person was a widow, we would have to be love at first sight soul mates, if there is still an ex out there, no.

[dustybiker2]

That would ease the strain.

[worldscolide]

Agreed. In all honesty I've tried dating a single mom once. I liked her a lot. She was great. But she couldn't let go of drugs. Eventually we broke up. It killed me inside not just because of losing her, it killed me because I was losing her son too. We bonded a bit, he was a really cool kid, loved legos, video games and reading. And when I lost his mom, I lost him. At that point I chose to never be involved with a single mom again. Getting your heart broken twice in one sitting sucks.

[dustybiker2]

Makes you feel for the kid. He couldn't leave. Childhood is one helluva sacrifice for people in that situation.

[worldscolide]

Agreed, I lived it, I spent more than half of my childhood in states custody.

[dustybiker2]

That is brutal.

[worldscolide]

Agreed. It's why when I have children I refuse to be what my parents were.

[dustybiker2]

Just love all over them. Even when naughty. Firm fair corrections and love.

[douride2]

No not a chance I would date someone with 3 kids.

[Charliefretz329]

The children would not be a deciding factor. I enjoy children. I have 3 young ones left at home myself

[FearlessFlame]

I see the "Would you date someone who X..." series is back. Why just 3 and not 5 or 7 children? Lmao how did you come up with this number?

[Drumlin2001]

If I were single I wouldn't rule it out, but I have 2 preschool kids myself, so with 5 small kids invovled it would be rather complicated.

[Alex-Snow]

Not at this time in my life. I'm 18 and not ready for that.

[IslaTheWitch]

sure, as long as kids would accept me

[Pete671]

Yes you often get more sense from kids than adults,,,

[OtterMan68]

As long as she was not looking for a husband

[pinconon]

I would prefer to have my own kids one day

[handsomelad70]

At SEVENTY? Why would I?

[Wiredone]

If I was single I would

[purplepoppy]

Not a chance in Hell

[msc545]

Sure. I love kids!

[At3mis24]

I just don't want kids.

[LiamJHayden]

Most likely not.

[thisAppIsGarbage]

Inwouldnt date a non virgin

[Chazmatazz269]

Nopey

[12karen]

Nope I wouldn't

[Kathy1111]

yes i would

[JohnathanK]

No chance

[Cheerguy]

Not a chance