Guys, Would you date a woman with 3 kids?

[Ginger1907]

Updates

+1 y

Because my sister in her 20s and she was married and she had 2 kids by her ex husband and they are 4 and 3 rn. Now she was messing around with some guy. It was a one night stand and he got her pregnant and he left her when he found out. Now she have another baby that is 2 months and single.

[crazy8000]

What's the age of them?
How much do you have them?
Are there special needs?
A y attitude problems amongst the children?
How do you treat their father?
Do you have economy to uphold yourself and your children?
Do you have your own place?
Do you have depts and how much if you have?
If your after marriage, creating more children I'm not interested.

[dragoblack]

I personally wouldn't. Anyone who dates a person with kids has to take into account that... 1: The kids come first, 2: If things go well, the kid/kids will be part of their lives regardless of the mother introducing the kids or not, 3: Unless the kids are gone to their grandparents/babysitters or at school, there's no sexual romance without the kids interfering, 4: kids are a huge commitment, especially if they start calling you "dad". And 5: the more kids, the harder it is to have romance and private time

[Joeshamo]

I mean, maybe if she had only 1 kid. But three is too much for me. And I want kids of my own. It’d be too expensive for me to have my own kids with her. I’d be stuck taking care of another mans kids and not be able to get a legacy of my own.

[Avicenna]

Honestly, there is no way I'd do that. Everything would revolve around someone else's kids and would be very chaotic, let alone the finances of such a situation.

[Avicenna]

This is in response to the update: she already has three small kids by two different men? No one will date her, no one. And she'd be well-advised to focus on her kids and avoid any further hookups.

[Ginger1907]

Not even her ex husband want to take care of his kids. So she raising 3 little kids by herself.

[Ginger1907]

Her first two is boys. She wanted a girl so bad that she decided to have sex with anyone just to get a babygirl.

[Avicenna]

Very poor judgement. Who wants to step into that mess?

[AviatorTom]

If I was younger and single again, looking for a relationship... Sure I would. I like kids, and the fact that a woman is a mother doesn't change who she is.

[HighValue]

Ha ha ha! Nope. I don't want to be responsible for her mistakes or deal with the drama that comes with it.

[abc3643]

I married a woman with 3 kids. In fact, one of her kids was married BEFORE we got married!

[Reijen]

I personally wouldn't.
I don't think I'd date any woman with kids.
You'll always be a lower priority, which is fine, her kids should take priority.

[888theGreat]

I take it you have redhair and 3 kids? No I surely can find someone without kids.

[Ginger1907]

No I have brown hair and no kids. Nice try.

[TheBigGuy9]

I have before. If she has a stable job and is responsible, why not?

[okeydoke]

Not at this point in my life, no. That’s conditional though.

[Shiningtempest]

@Ginger1907 I would never date a woman with three kids because it indicates horrible luck or she committed adultery.

[Anonymous]

Unlikely but depends. It's not something I'd look for or actively seek.

[Cubus]

How old are your kids?

[Ginger1907]

How about like 4,3 and 2 months

[DaveJord]

@Ginger1907. Honestly reading the update I don't think it was the kids that's the issue. But descent guys don't get involved with women with young kids, unless they're in it for the right reasons.

On night stands are one night stands.

[Dchrls78104]

No, I would not date such a woman.

[Morgador]

I have dated someone with kids

[LegendaryIcon]

I'm "talking" to a girl who has 2

[EaterPeter]

My ex filed police report got him arrested

[EaterPeter]

Oops

[EaterPeter]

May be.

[EaterPeter]

There was a women who was studying with me. I once told her that if I ever want a women who is mother of 3 that would be you.

[DaveJord]

Depends on the women

[Anonymous]

Her fertility might scare me off

[Anonymous]

Not unless they were mine.

[Phoenix98]

Nope.

[ChiPaPa]

Nope.

[Pterodon]

I have

[threebelles]

Not so many

[eagle1951]

have in the past

[Anonymous]

no..