Would you date someone with multiple kids?

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I watched about this and it got pretty heated on both sides, so I figured I’d ask here. Fellas, would you date a woman that has let’s say 5 kids and 4 baby fathers and could you take her serious? Yes or no; reason why. Ladies, if you have 5 kids with 4 different fathers; what would your reaction be if a man said no to dating because of that? Would you take responsibility knowing having multiple baby daddies is the main reason men don’t want to date you or do you believe that man isn’t man enough to date you because of that? What’s your mindset of continuing having kids with multiple dads and knowing possibly there’s a chance no one wants to date you? I’m curious of people’s thoughts, opinions and feelings about this topic.

Rosexøxø · Accepted Answer

Oh I would never. I would never get to such a position. I love kids but not letting myself suffer for it. If I was somehow single, and financially secure and even better then yeah, I wouldn’t blame them for not dating. Even if financially insecure, I’d not blame them. I’d be annoyed cause I have affection for the kids I had, and would think they’re lovely and small depredation of myself. So for them to be deterred by my mini me minions I would definitely be annoyed. Only temporarily though.

Also I just don’t plan to have kids so wouldn’t be an issue.

I myself would never date a guy with many kids. It’d be considerable but probably no. Especially the larger the number and multiple number of partners… I would think. “Player.” Or “he didn’t learn?”

PeachyPie93 · Accepted Answer

I actually have a friend with five kids and 5 baby daddies lol She literally has no issues having men.. since she even dated the guy I had a crush on in HS.. They keep dating her and she keeps having more kids.. the guy who stayed the longest is her last baby daddy and I guess he really loves her since they been together for 4 years broke up for a year and got back together..
Me personally I don't really like guys much anyways so whether they care if I had kids or not isn't my problem, since if they actually liked and valued me as a person things like kids or whatever wouldn't matter.

AviatorTom · Accepted Answer

When I was younger and single, I would date any woman I was interested in, whether she had kids or not.

Avicenna · Accepted Answer

5 kids by 4 different baby fathers? Hell no, nor would I stick my dick in her.

DishLady · Answer

Depends on the ages of the kids and also on how many baby-mommas there are in the mix. If the guy has 1-3 kids and one ex, ok. Multiple exes with one kid per gal is a massive red flag hinting that I'd be one in a long line of one-night stands or something...

Account · Answer

I wouldn't date a guy with children. That is a no from me

natured · Answer

Sadly when it comes to Women with multiple baby dadies you are right, they have less chances to date due to their choices made... because I understand if it happens once or twice but why continue the same path and mistakes over and over again. It says a lot about their character and although I'm a woman myself I do not condone nor do I respect that, because those kids will grow up confused and it's unfair to them.
If it comes to MEN with different BABY MOTHERS, it's the same actually, because if you can't keep it in your pants and impregnate different Women that also shows me a lot a bout you as a MAN and your mentality...
Smart people make smart choices = Birthcontrol

4ngelic · Answer

i have zero kids/baby daddies, but if i did i'd understand why men would be turned off. like the male version of that is just as repellent. i could never date a man with 5 kids from different women. if i was a serial baby momma i'd probably feel resignated and doomed to casual things since most guys wouldn't want to cuff me durably.

EzraIsShy76028 · Answer

Hell to the fuck no. 🤢🤢🤢

I already don't like children in general. Even when I WAS a child myself I didn't like other children, as they would constantly single me out and make fun of me. Whenever I hear a child's laughter I get flashbacks from the children laughing at me when I was in kindergarten, and I've never truly gotten over it as it was very traumatic for me.

But MULTIPLE kids? That's even worse! Yuck!!! 🤮🤮🤮

Blunky · Answer

I just don't date single mothers anymore. That's a whole lot of drama I don't need in my life and goes way beyond being a lopsided relationship. Really doesn't matter to me if she can support them all herself, there won't be enough time for me.

Anonymous · Answer

No I wouldn't. Also tbh I wouldn't expect anyone to put up with me if I had children.
I dated single dad with 2 kids and he was always mentioning how he'd like to marry me one day so he wouldn't have to babysit his kids every weekend anymore and wouldn't have to clean and cook for them and how he'd have so mich more free time after he'd marry me.
I don't know why this people expect so much.
Sure if I had 2 kids I'd be grateful if my partner took care of them but wtf anyway

molonski2 · Answer

Absolutely NOT ! No way.. multiple fathers? She obviously has ZERO judgement , and is basically problem just a lazy bitch who needs to keep her legs closed..5 kids , 4 fathers.. no no no ! Thats horrendous.

IslaTheWitch · Answer

I would date him... not his kids... can't see any problem... :D

Bruce24 · Answer

No! On average ONE kid cost about 200K throughout the course of 18-20 years. Its not your offspring, your jeans or your last name isn't getting past on.

MemeSupreme · Answer

no bc im nowhere near ready for having my own kids  but if i was then maybe if they all had the same mother

red-lipstick-girl · Answer

Fortunately, I am a smart woman, I do not intend to make children without marriage, so I do not take risks, I will make a child in a difficult way to look at the child.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

I'm not interested in having any kids and I'm only willing to date/marry an attractive virgin woman who has the same personality, interests, hobbies, lifestyle, and goals as me.

zagor · Answer

I was at a dating meetup once and a woman asked me if I would date someone with kids. I said I would consider dating someone with a kid, and she said, how about 5? End of convo.

NicholasRedone · Answer

No, no, no and hell no and heaven no.  No 🛑

Staximus · Answer

Only if all the kids were from one father. 5 kids with 4 fathers = Very poor life decisions.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Five from four? No. Widowed with a couple of well-behaved ones? Would consider it.

Becky93 · Answer

No, I don't date those with kids. I did twice I had to do a lot of work while my partners were too lazy. Or they go party while I babysat.

Finchie40 · Answer

No, I wouldn’t be interested

Anonymous · Answer

I would definitely date a man with lots of kids if he loved me and his kids equally.

Credentialmayhem · Answer

Only if I had kids of my own this is mostly for divorced couples with children

Anonymous · Answer

I wouldn't date a man with multiple kids. He's irresponsible!

itsannalee · Answer

Eww nope. I better have 20 dogs.

Arwen06 · Answer

No, but I've shagged dads before

XXTruthfulOgrexx · Answer

Hands down, NO hard NO.

DrPepper12 · Answer

No. Too much baggage.

blackeagle007 · Answer

Not interested in being a step parent

DCVsMarvel · Answer

No, I don't want kids at all

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

I wouldn't date a broad with ONE kid !!!

Manuelwe · Answer

Yes but I wouldn't marry her

Anonymous · Answer

I wouldn’t date anyone with kids.

Anonymous · Answer

Maybe, if she is 100% my type of girl.

Agape93 · Answer

Nope

eliegia · Answer

no i would be too insecure

Anonymous · Answer

Nope, I dont trust single mothers

Miristheiss · Answer

No..

chocolatetwopointo · Answer

no i hate kids

Madgedays · Answer

God no

Anonymous · Answer

Never

Anonymous · Answer

One max

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