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So atm I wear a size 0-2 but honestly feel as though this looks awfully skinny on me esp being so tall. I feel as though my face and breasts look fuller when im at a 4 and atm my ribs show a bit:x but when I go to gain weight I usually panic and end up skinnier so it backfires :x

What are your current sizes? Are you happy with it? If not what is your goal size? How would you describe your figure.. thin/thick/curvy/hourglass etc?

Also please no hate and men please do NOT vote in the poll or comment on your preferences bevause im not asking about what men prefer. If you are not in the US use this converter:

www.asknumbers.com/ClothingWomensConversion.aspx

Yes guys love boobs what ever size they are BUT if given a preference, they do have one..

I have excellent control over my weight now, lost weight last year so feel my best ever.. But we know that a women who gains weight then loses, her breasts change too. And one flaw when that occurs is that deflated but bit droopy look. Which I find unattractive.

With my lowest weight I enjoyed I loved my body size but my boobs more deflated so I hated that. At 7/8 pounds heavier I was a little bigger and not as pleased with my body but still tolerant.. but my breasts I loved much better. The difference probably in a size 10 vs 12 clothing wise.

I'm struggling to decide which to be. Yes it may seem like a silly thing to concern over but it is what it is.. So which would you rather have? How much are somewhat deflated breasts from weight loss a turn off? And I hesitate to believe they are no big deal at all but maybe I'm wrong. I'm a 36c. So we're talking fuller c or deflated to a larger b or deflated c lol and dont tell me to embrace what I have, I will learn to embrace either one, just unsure which lol.

Laugh with me if you will, when you are done chuckling.. Answer my question honestly lol 😄 thanks!

Well for 23 years, I've never dated nor have ever been asked by someone to date me, it's pretty upsetting especially that I have tried to get close to some guys whom I liked but they wind up pushing me away. My problem is I think I'm too nice sometimes, I care a lot about I like, but I'm horrible at social interactions. Like I seriously freeze when facing new people, I thought I have a social phobia but I also seem to attract very awkward situations. Anyway once someone gets to know me, they actually start liking me a lot, which makes me happy, but then they suddenly disappear, the second they say they like me or I feel like they started liking me they disappear, and this happened A LOT.
Anyway I blamed my weight for it, since my mom keeps saying that since I'm overweight, that pushes men away, but I don't want to be with a person who liked me because I happen to satisfy his weight preferences for the girl he wants or how she looks like.
What also sucks, that my friends who ask me for dating advice, they take my advice through and it works like heaven for them, so I feel if I became someone's someone, I'd actually make a good girlfriend. If u thought its probably I come clingy, in fact, I'm not clingy at all, I give men their independence to appreciate mine as well.
My flaws, maybe cuz I'm super-talkative, super-analytical, I'm kinda jokative, awkward when faced with strangers & turn up all silent, & lastly, I hate using social media, plus my relationship with my phone sucks.
So please you guys, I want your help, I'm in a dire need to know what causes my problems of pushing my crushes away once they actually start liking me, one went away cuz he thought he found my friend whom he thought was better than me, I honestly don't want to feel lower than all girls in the world & I wanna go through the dating world because when I happen to really like a guy, I wanna know how to approach him without him disappearing & me getting sad.