Why are SOME of the guys on here are straight up douches?

[Anonymous]

This does not apply to all the men on this website...

Anyway, as I was saying there are some inconsiderate rude jerky douche bags on this site. I mean a 13 year old girl will post a thread about I don't know about her height or boobs or weight, and some guys have the nerve to say the most awful things as if the girl wasn't already insecure. Like i see questions asking guys is they like ugh let's see... oh yea it will be a question like "Do guys like thick or thin girl"

And I bet you will always see at least like 3 guys who say this

"Thick for me I dont like bony bitches"

"Thin I don't want my wife to have thunder thighs by the time she's 40"

Its like really? Was that nessacary?
I mean everybody has a preference but can you just state that sentence without bashing someone over something they can't control!!
Instead of saying things like that opp for saying things like

"I prefer thicker women"

"I prefer thinner women, but that's just me"

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[DanAG]

It's needed to counter all the politically correct nonsense on this site (and everywhere else). The opposite of what you say is far more prevalent. For every person who makes statements in an undiplomatic way there are several who are TOO diplomatic. They are too diplomatic to the point of giving bad advice that's just plain wrong, and sometimes outright lies.

When a girl asks a question like "Are guys turned off by women who are 50-75 pounds overweight?", you get a bunch of politically correct answers like "You are beautiful just the way you are". That's an outright lie. It does no good whatsoever. The absolute truth is that guys ARE turned off by women 50-75 pounds overweight. Anyone who says otherwise is lying. Anyone who says "some guys like overweight women" are not much better because they are avoiding the question and implying something that's not true.

The opposite politically correct answers are so common that a little honesty is welcome. I totally agree that some people say things in a hurtful way. But I still prefer their honesty to all the lies that everyone is OK just the way they are.

[Anonymous]

One person's "straight up douche" is another's "straight up guy". People will often moderate their language less online than in person. They're saying what they're thinking.

That sort of language probably works really well with their friends, and not necessarily only those of the same gender. So they are probably being friendly.

In mixed gender company, when language like that is used the women present will often say nothing about any negative feelings generated by such words. So through their inaction they quickly teach men that they don't mind it, even if this isn't the case.

[Anonymous]

Lol, this is the internet!
You can't be on here if you can't take rude comments.

[CreativeUsername_no]

People are selfish. Dickish, insulting replies/comments are just an outlet for their own insecurities, and quite often, fulfilling that outlet is all a person's thinking about as they type and submit the comment. I may have done this a couple of times in the past and end up feeling bad about it later. Internet's like alcohol. Brings out our demons.

[LaDouleurExquise]

maybe you shouldn't take everything so personally and insert yourself in every time they're talking about their imaginary wife they aren't nice to, or bony bitches. dont associate these things to yourself and they won't be offensive to you.

[zinithin]

"I mean everybody has a preference but can you just state that sentence without bashing someone over something they can't control!!"

You're assuming they don't have control over their weight?

[Asker]

Some people don't

[zinithin]

How so?

[Asker]

Some people can't loose or gain weight. Its called metabolism. Or they could have a serious condition

[zinithin]

If you don't eat as much calories as you are burning you will lose weight. Metabolism or not. What serious condition are you referring to?

[Anonymous]

This is my take on it...

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[CourtJester]

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[Asker]

There's a nicer way to express your opinions

[TheWiseOwl]

Yes because women don't say similar stuff about men? The hypocrisy of a woman never ceases to dazzle me.

[Outofthegrey]

Because you can't get the shit beat out of you for being an asshole on the internet.

[Asker]

There all talk behind a screen

[Anonymous]

Learn to accept that we are unsensitive to an individuals feels including our own gender. We are programed with a "fuck it" attitude.(excuse my language) .

[Anonymous]

I AM NOT a douche. I call people out on their bullshit, that's all i do. That's all. If you see it as being a douche, then yeah, I'm a douche, but I will NOT be bullshitted, got it?

[Anonymous]

oh, those are the posts you have a problem with? Those seem like the more mild of the douchery going on here...

[Opinion Owner]

Also, wasn't "thick for me I dont like bony bitches" basically the theme of that supposedly body positive pop song?

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[evenlift]

Most people can control their weight.

[Longshot]

It's referred to as immaturity.

[Miralrio]

i like going straight to the point.

[Asker]

Going straight to the point doesn't mean I Feel like being an asshole

[SomeoneImportant]

Welcome to the internet.

[Dalelee]

Because some people are mean inconsiderate fools

[AlwaysBelieving]

Because they have no self control.

[GoldCobra]

Lol thanks for the advice