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Using online dating app is considered cheating?

Me and my boyfriend has an argument and didn't talked for almost a week ago we have same thoughts that were done and broken up. And suddenly my friend told me he saw my boyfriend has new account on OkCupid. I made a new...

babydoll1515

Xper 4 Age: 27

Why is my ex looking for me online?

My ex boyfriend and I broke up about 3 weeks ago. The 1st day or 2 I did the stupid begging pleading crap (which I regret) . I reached out again a week or so later and no response. And at the 2 week point I deleted him...

Anonymous

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Breaking up with first boyfriend?

moonliteb

Xper 3 Age: 25

My best friend who's a little bit younger than me is in her first relationship, 3 months so far. Things have been pretty awful in it. She's got quite a lot of issues and is living

My best friend who's a little bit younger than me is in her first relationship, 3 months so far. Things have been pretty awful in it. She's got quite a lot of issues and is living alone at 17, I guess you could say she's a little high maintenance. The boy she is with, 21(not a fan of the age gap either, but it's legal where I live), is quite normal and lives a very everything's handed to him life. He comes down from another state to see her and they met online.
As soon as they started dating it was a train wreck, he was continually picking on her about her mental health problems and doing things to purposefully scare her (switching lights on and off in the pitch black house till the point she cried). İmmediately I said 'f*ck him off' and our other friend and I spoke to him about it because she was scared to. At this point she liked him, he liked her, so she wanted to keep trying in hopes maybe he just didn't understand.
Fast forward to now, the bullying stopped but they argue daily and he yells at her almost everyday he is here about something ridiculous (eg. her asking if he left knife marks on the kitchen bench. He lies saying he didn't then later admits he did and she asks why. Then he starts yelling at her) she's tried out acting call everytime it happens to make sure it wasn't her, and he will still yell at her. He can't take jokes but he expects her to take all of his mean bullying. She's on a dating site right now, which he is aware of, and believes that she could for sure find better.
She's unhappy, feels as if she hates him, they have nothing in common, it's a huge train wreck. I've mostly convinced her to separate with him because it's affecting her, he goes back home in two days and she wanted to break up with him now but she's scared so she might do it when he leaves. she's scared she will regret it, be lonely, and he will either be upset or not care at all and keeps second guessing herself. Does anyone have any advice I could pass onto her? Boys and girls!

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I cheated on my boyfriend with a girl, but i'm not at all into girls. How did this happen? What should I do?

Two days ago i was on a party and i drunk maybe too much, but not more than usual; i don't even remember to feel way too drunk or weirder than usual. By the way, at the end of the party it seems that i had fun with a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Does she hate me now because of what I said?

So, I love this girl and I know she loves me too.. But without caution, I wrote something I didn't mean at all because I wasn't thinking clearly , and now let's just say that I broke her trust for me, even tho I didn't...

Anonymous

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So, I love this girl and I know she loves me too.. But without caution, I wrote something I didn't mean at all because I wasn't thinking clearly , and now let's just say that I broke

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My ex is messaging me again and it's making me hurt inside, but I'm finding it hard to block him, What should I do?

Basically i played video games with this random person i met online (he's a friend), my ex got mad and said i was cheating. He took my account passwords away and he would prohibit me from playing that game. I really just...

arineunha

Xper 6 Age: 28

Mental health & allowing love into my life

A/n: This will be more for me than other people. I'm kind of feeling down for no reason and needed to write about it in order to calm down, but didn't really know what platform I could use. Sorry for possible mistakes,...

Anonymous

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It's hard to move on from him?

So. my boyfriend and I weren't working, I kept breaking up with him cause he kept doing shit (I dont wanna get into it) its upsetting. the distance was a BIG deal to us. Anyways. I broke it off, and immediately tried to...

bubblezzzz

Xper 3 Age: 29

Would you choose a couple of ONLINE friends over your boyfriend or girlfriend and break up with the bf/gf?

Yes, this is a serious question. Her online friends took exception to some uncontroversial social media comments made by the boyfriend and sabotaged the relationship. Once it was clear that they were, the boyfriend wanted...

Avicenna

Master Age: 55

How the hell do I move on?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Should I end things with him?

I've been with my boyfriend for about a month, we get along good, he quite affectionate and very respectful of my boundaries. Recently he's been spending a lot of time with me and my friends, his friends don't seem to...

Sambean2

Xper 4 Age: 24

To marry or break up: A decision I can't decide!

This eternal conflict of mine has been in my mind for the past 4 years, puzzling back and forth to wondering if it would be more beneficial to marry my girlfriend or if I should break up with her to give her a chance of a...

Aysen

Influencer Age: 34

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Family & Friends

Why is my mom a jerk and negative toward me?

I got to point where I broke down crying. I been working hard all week on my online store that’s very new & small. My mom said y I’m giving away I distgusting top I made to a raffle event, then talks shit of my new store...

Sugar100

Yoda Age: 29

Guy's Behavior

Is he interested or what? Does he just want me to sleep with?

So my boyfriend and I broke up a year ago when we found out that I was pregnant. I lost the kid and on my birthday last month he saw my profile in POF (where we met) and messaged me saying he was sorry for How things went...

Exotica08

Xper 6 Age: 35

I think I wanna break up with my boyfriend?

I'm just not feeling that into him anymore, and he's said some things that have really hurt my feelings, and ever since then I've been feeling a little off. he joked about my past trauma, and often calls me mean names. he...

rawtoast

Xper 3 Age: 24

Dating a lot after newly single? Am I out of control?

I'm newly single after 7 months with a woman who I thought I was going to marry. We had a great connection and I am still in love with her. She dumped me after an argument in which we both made mistakes. I have tried to...

Anonymous

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Other

What's a stupid reason you've never liked another girl?

My ex and I are very different. He's white and I'm black. We grew up differently. I really liked him. But I guess his dad didn't like me. Basically my ex boyfriend had this ex he had been dating since middle school...

MelanieMartinez99

Xper 2 Age: 26