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Recently my ex and I got into contact. At first she was pretty flirty and was really happy we reconnected.

I took it as a sign she still had feelings, so I asked her if we could try to rebuild our relationship and she said no because of some things I said during our breakup. She said later she lost interest in me. I told her that I didn't want to be friends and it'd be too difficult. She said she understood.

I sent her a message explaining why I said what I did during the breakup, and asked for her to reconsider and she could reach me if she changed her mind.

She '❤️' the message. But said nothing. It's been a week. My friends say she's been giving off mixed signals and she probably doesn't know what she wants and is scared. But she also never took ownership of what she did in our relationship either.

She had started following my social media accounts when we got back together, and she is still following them. Liking posts, and watching my stories.

My friends say that's a good sign, and she may just need time to process what I said and sort out what she wants.

What do you think?

I recently talked to my ex for the first time since we broke up 7 months ago. The conversation started rough, but then went very well. I felt there was something still there. He vibe and messages were kinda flirty but a little cautious at the same time.
In the end she said she was really happy we got reconnected.
I still really love her, and I'm wondering if it's a sign we could get back together?

Before it was a lot of time and place. Things weren't in the best place it could be and things probably boiled to overwhelming her and we had to break up.

A few months ago, I drunkenly texted a female friend a flirty message even though I have a girlfriend. My girlfriend and I are working through this issue. I work with the girl I texted and when out in a group for work, drinks are often involved for the whole team. My girlfriend has asked me to not drink around this girl. Because she still doesn’t trust me. I respected her wishes one time but felt extremely left out of the group and as if I were a social pariah. Yesterday, I saw this girl again at a work event and, though I told my girlfriend that I wouldn’t drink if the girl was around, I did anyway. I enjoy drinking. And I enjoy hanging out with my coworkers. I love my girlfriend but I have to drink when I’m out with the group. Everybody else is doing it and I want to be liked. I feel insecure when everybody around me is drinking and I’m not. Am I just being selfish or does this seem like an actual problem?