Did he stop replying because I hurt him?

[Anonymous]

I messaged my guy friend that sometimes I think it would be easier if we weren't friends and that I just don't know anymore. I have some trust issues and people keep causing drama between us and I'm just overwhelmed with it, and I like him and can't admit it. He read the message and never sent anything back. He also didn't delete me off of fb. Is he not answering because I hurt him, or does he not want to be friends? I didn't mean to hurt him, I just feel like no one wants us to be friends and maybe he doesn't either. He's always been really nice and kinda flirty, held my hand, compliments me, and even talked about taking me on a date several times. I've always panicked and blew him off for fear of admitting my own feelings. I thought I was maybe a joke to him. Now I'm really hurting and don't want him out of my life.

[luvstoned4him]

It's quite possible that he likes you and what you said upset and maybe he doesn't how to respond to it so he left it on silent for the time being. Don't worry he will respond soon

[Asker]

He said we could talk about it but we haven't yet. I like him. It was so easy between us in the beginning and now it isn't and it sucks. Ever since we started to get close all I've heard from other people is to leave him alone, stop flirting, he just doesn't want to hurt your feelings, he feels awkward, etc. Yet he does and says all this flirty and kind stuff when it's the two of us. He wants to know who keeps telling me this because it's not true. I want to just be honest with him, but I don't know what to believe now. Sometimes I feel like walking away would be easier.

[luvstoned4him]

@Askee don't worry, if he likes you like I believe he does, he will reach out

[Anonymous]

Lol... Females...

[Asker]

Lol, meaning?

[Opinion Owner]

You want him. But you don't want him. You want him but you don't wanna admit or tell him. Now he wants you and your upset cos you wasn't honest. And now he don't want you

Y'all over complicate shxt.. if you liked him u shoulda jus told him from the start.. you only have yourself to blame now for hiding it lol

[Asker]

I do like him. It was so easy between us in the beginning and now it isn't and it sucks. Ever since we started to get close all I've heard from other people is to leave him alone, stop flirting, he just doesn't want to hurt your feelings, he feels awkward, etc. Yet he does and says all this stuff when it's the two of us. He wants to know who keeps telling me this because it's not true. I want to just be honest with him, but I don't know what to believe now. Sometimes I feel like walking away would be easier.