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I work with this man, and I admittedly find him attractive and have a crush (I know dating coworkers isn't the best idea, I don't want to date him. I'm just curious.) He's very kind and quiet. He stares at me all of the time, like he's keeping tabs on me. He comes up to my desk a lot and asks me how I am or just says hi. Before, he was very subtle and I'm sure nobody noticed.
But lately, he's been doing it in front of his coworkers, and he's also been standing very close to me in front of others like he just doesn't care. The other day, I was talking to another guy that obviously has a crush on me, and the guy in question walked past and gave the guy the dirtiest look I've ever seen. Today as he was leaving, he stared at me with this smile on his face for a few seconds, while his coworker was standing right there and watching.

Everyone knows he has a girlfriend. He's been with her for a couple years now.

What's the deal with him? Does he just not care that his coworkers know he has a girlfriend and is flirting with someone else? It doesn't exactly look good... I know he loves his career and wants to move forward.

Do you think he's actually having more serious feelings for me? Or am I being naive?

I'm trying really hard not to be naive. I work with this man, and I admittedly find him attractive and have a crush. He's very kind and quiet. He stares at me all of the time, like he's keeping tabs on me. He comes up to my desk a lot and asks me how I am or just says hi. Before, he was very subtle and I'm sure nobody noticed.
But lately, he's been doing it in front of his coworkers, and he's also been standing very close to me in front of others like he just doesn't care. The other day, I was talking to another guy that obviously has a crush on me, and the guy in question walked past and gave the guy the dirtiest look I've ever seen. Today as he was leaving, he stared at me with this smile on his face for a few seconds, while his coworker was standing right there and watching.

Everyone knows he has a girlfriend. He's been with her for a couple years now.

What's the deal with him? Does he just not care that his coworkers know he has a girlfriend and is flirting with someone else? It doesn't exactly look good... I know he loves his career and wants to move forward.

Do you think he's actually having more serious feelings for me? Or am I being naive?

Hi, I'd like to know what you'll think (especially the guys). Also, I'll leave out details for privacy.

At the beginning of this year I met this man (a client of mine) online. I'm a language teacher. I worked with him and got along great, I was living in Europe at the time and am still married and he is in America (where I'm originally from). After many complicated days I ended up telling him I was running away from Europe from abusive husband. Long story short, he helped me without me asking, literally saving my life and got me to America. We kept working together and met up in person twice, he was great.

Ever since then, we keep doing this:

- Whatsapp EVERY single day (not romantically tho), it feels as though we'd miss each other if we ever missed a day.. that's my feeling though. If I don't write first, he writes first
- Since he helped me I told him I would never charge him again, he still insists, but I think he's given up, we talk on the phone about 4 times/wk for around 1.5 hrs each time (not romantically, teaching, but we laugh tons)
- He is very generous, always offering help, checking in on me - we share lots in common (food, politics, books, humor, etc)
- He laughs everytime I do, even before telling him whatever I'm thinking about (I'm very giggly)
- we read each others' book recommendations and talk for hours about them.

About a month ago he was very nervous and told me some very personal things (he really doesn't open much about his private life). He has a girlfriend, hardly ever mentions her (has about 3 times, 2 out of those 3 were not good things and he kept telling me "I hope you'll still talk to me after I tell you this/I'm sure you'll want to forget about me..", he says he wants to stop his relationship but has failed, not sure why he even told me, but is making me wonder. We never flirt, I'm resisting, not sure if he's resisting as well. I'm sure his girlfriend doesn't know about me.
My family and I are forever grateful for what he did for me...