im so sick of seeing the same damn question posted over and over... and over. "we flirted earlier for 20 min, does he like me" and then go into great detail explaining the situation. i have 3 brothers, lived in a frat for 2 years, dated a handful girls (semi-long term) and hooked up with more girls than i'm proud to admit. I've heard men and women both repetitively complain about their S. O. problems and just like how all humans share much of the same DNA (99.9%), we share much of the same problems in regards to understanding the opposite sex.
let me break it down for you. Im not gonna sugercoat anything so if your sensitive, just leave now. Anyhow, If you are hot there's a 99.9% chance he likes you. how do you know if you are hot? look in the damn mirror and compare yourself to pictures of models. We all know most hot girls know they are hot. sorry that the world is like this but your looks comes first as a woman and everything else about you pales in comparison your physical appearance. When i say looks, im talking about the shape of your body and your facial features. You need to first realize that men and women perceive attraction differently so you can't truly understand attraction from the perspective of a dude. All i can do is explain it to as logically as possible. The majority of guys (yes even rich, tall, successful ones) just want a super hot girlfriend. The more physically attracted we are to her, the better. Again its primarily about looks no matter how old we get. Preference will definitely vary (mainly in regards to race) but there is a objective level of symmetry that ALL attractive women have. This is important becuase this means there are some girls who nearly ALL straight men find attractive. Like some girls are so hot/objectively attractive that if a guy said he wasn't attracted to her, literally all the others guys would think he's gay. Think megan fox, jessica alba, sofia vergara, frieda pinto, etc.
let me break it down for you. Im not gonna sugercoat anything so if your sensitive, just leave now. Anyhow, If you are hot there's a 99.9% chance he likes you. how do you know if you are hot? look in the damn mirror and compare yourself to pictures of models. We all know most hot girls know they are hot. sorry that the world is like this but your looks comes first as a woman and everything else about you pales in comparison your physical appearance. When i say looks, im talking about the shape of your body and your facial features. You need to first realize that men and women perceive attraction differently so you can't truly understand attraction from the perspective of a dude. All i can do is explain it to as logically as possible. The majority of guys (yes even rich, tall, successful ones) just want a super hot girlfriend. The more physically attracted we are to her, the better. Again its primarily about looks no matter how old we get. Preference will definitely vary (mainly in regards to race) but there is a objective level of symmetry that ALL attractive women have. This is important becuase this means there are some girls who nearly ALL straight men find attractive. Like some girls are so hot/objectively attractive that if a guy said he wasn't attracted to her, literally all the others guys would think he's gay. Think megan fox, jessica alba, sofia vergara, frieda pinto, etc.
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As far as personality goes? she just needs to not be rude in public/bratty and laugh at all jokes. THAT'S IT. THAT IS LITERALLY ALL 99% of GUYS REQUIRE PERSONALITY-WISE.
Sometimes we will look for ways to make a girl THINK we care about her personality but this is just a tactic to get you to think we can look past your looks.
Sometimes we will look for ways to make a girl THINK we care about her personality but this is just a tactic to get you to think we can look past your looks.
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We are purposely putting your personality on blast, to make you think we "arent all about looks" I've had great success attracting girls when they think i am judging their personality and looking past their looks. The truth is THIS IS ALL A TACTIC TO BUILD EMOTIONAL ATTRACTION.
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