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Not to take everything they say so literally and respond so logically to them. E. g. if she says she's having a girls night out it doesn't mean that half the time. Think about it. If she didn't want to be approached by guys do you really think she'd go out to a bar/club? She could have a girls movie night at home instead. She's just weeding out the guys that aren't confident enough to push past that shit test.
Just don't even comment about weight, or if she shows you old pictures don't comment