Not to take everything they say so literally and respond so logically to them. E. g. if she says she's having a girls night out it doesn't mean that half the time. Think about it. If she didn't want to be approached by guys do you really think she'd go out to a bar/club? She could have a girls movie night at home instead. She's just weeding out the guys that aren't confident enough to push past that shit test.
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Just don't even comment about weight, or if she shows you old pictures don't comment
I think that we’re pretty sensitive about certain things. For example, I get touched when my boyfriend says I gain weight, I suddenly feel conscious so I feel like with certain things they should be careful about what they say and stuff. If it makes sense?
Just because we're nice, friends with you, or talk to you, does NOT mean we want to date you, like you, or sleep with you!
Believe it or not, sometimes we really do just want guy friends and nothing more.
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Don't talk to us or treat us like you do your guy friends, we're a little, well a lot softer emotionally than you guys. We sometimes get our feelings hurt when a guy kids around or embarasses us especially in public. I've watched how my brothers act with each other and their friends, I know I'd never like being treated like that. So if you want my attention treat me with respect and like a girl! Make her feel special, like she's totally worth the effort! When she says something, listen then remember what she said, especially if it's about something she likes, her fantasy of how she thinks a guy would treat her if he loves her. Then sometime later after she's forgot she told you, try to do or remind her what she said. You'll get extra points for it, because she knows you listened to her. Sometimes, she just wants you to liste, then don't judge or say a thing! If she lets you into her heart and tells you one of her deepest secrets, or she tears up telling you something about her or about you, she might just need a hug and to be held close for a while. Sometimes we're emotional about the dumbest things, we can't even begin to tell you why either, our hormones wreak havoc with us at times. We want you to be understanding and never, ever ask her if it's that time of the month, that's the absolute worst insulting thing you can say to her. You may think it, you may wonder, but keep it to yourself please! We need a hug, and to be held close more than we need you to try to fix our problems!
What you may think is considered acceptable behavior, can make us afraid.
A ride home after a bar run can be a kind gesture, but it's also how some girls get kidnapped, raped or killed.
It doesn't matter if you mean well, but it's the possibility of it happening that gets us.I'd say that a girl needs to know that you love her. She wants to hear that, she wants the boy to be caring... And last but not least - girls LOVE gifts. It doesn't need to be anything too expensive, it could be a little flower, poem, something small and cute... We tend to adore these lovely gestures and having something small that reminds us of our love is very nice
In a relationship, you should let her know that you love her. Dont be afraid to communicate and Express yourself emotionally. Make her feel like a queen and like she's the luckiest woman alive. Outside of a relationship, let the girl know your intentions before getting to know her because a lot of us will always think that most of y'all are just trying to fuck. Compliment girls on their outfit and or non sexual body part (s). Be honest and direct with us.
Don't expect her to think like you. If it's important to her, then it should be important to you. Just because you think it's unimportant, doesn't mean you should write it off and ignore her. Listen to her, and be sincere about it.
Guys should allow girls to be themselves, respect and support their confidence, mature actions, space and privacy. It ain't easy trying to dissect everything a girl says or does but it is easy to be too prematurely become judgmental about a girl without putting in much efforts to build trust between her and oneself and communicate openly and caring with her to find out what she is thinking of/saying/doing.
She wants you to notice the little things about her that make her unique and she wants to be told those things. Also just because you are now in a relationship doesn’t mean you should stop trying to flatter her/make her feel special but just tell her once a day you love her so much, randomly telling her she is beautiful or some other genuine compliment will make her feel really appreciated.
Not every girl wants to hop into bed right away as much as you might. Take the time to get to know her and learn how quickly she wants the relationship to progress instead of asking for nudes or feeling her up before you’re even exclusive.
Women can be really strong and independent yet they still want the guy that will allow her to be vulnerable without judgment
If a girl likes you enough, she'll do practically anything for you. As soon as she stops doing those things, she's found another guy, but she won't tell you about him and she'll expect you to figure it out on your own.
Do not try to scold or shame her or act gruffly when she’s expressing emotions. Just listen and comfort her when she’s sad.
A woman has to be attracted to you and you have to have consent from her before trying anything, and women dont owe guys anything.
Stop putting them on a pedestal. Thirsty cucks ruining it for everyone
That girls aren't any more valuable than what they earn from you.
Probably don't take them for granted. Stop putting them on pedestals and when they say no the leave.
Women hate being lusted after and cat called. Stop assuming all is the same.
That she has emotions. She wants affection
That nobody wants them, they should take their dicks & blast off to Mars lol
Girl's want respect and love first, THEN the sex will follow. This is the opposite of guys who want the sex first and then the respect and love will follow.
LIKe i hate it when guys shout
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