What is the most important thing that guys should understand about a girl?
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He can this really be answered? It will depend on the person you want to know about. People like the feeling of being able to refer to a list hit you really can't know a person- especially really important things about a person- without knowing that person.
I can tell you an important thing about _me_
I like to be asked questions over having incorrect assumptions made. It’s much easier to just give the right info in the first place than to unpack and reconstruct wring info after the fact.
I don’t expect anyone to magically understand me if they have never spent time getting to know me. So there is no pressure to know stuff. I’m not sure why people seem to think you’re supposed to. It’s self defeating.
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I need emotional security. I can often be very out of touch with my feelings, which can cause them to all explode at once, like I can get very frustrated about something irrational. My current boyfriend is amazing, so logical, so calm, so perfect.
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That girls are mostly indecisive and unpredictable because our decisions and reaction are often influenced by emotions we feel in that particular moment... so we are kind of victims of our emotions.
Women remember everything. Everything. Why you ask? Well it's simple. Women thousands of years ago were the Gathers. We obviously were the hunters.
They would have to walk miles to gather food for the village but most of all remember how they got there and how to get back so that they may get more food at a later time and date.
This has been hardwired in their brains and is now just a freaky superpower.
So when your buddies say dude she remembers every conversation we ever had for the last 2 years. Well that is why.
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That no-one understands them not even themselves
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She is not like other girls and never should you assume without truly getting to know her. That s how you lose out on the girl you want.
Another is there is no such thing as the friendzone. Just because she wants to be friends it doesn't mean she is not attracted to you or consider you dating material for her. She just may not be ready right now. Unless it is proven by what she said is she will not date you or a friend, don't hurt her. She WILL remember you and how you treated her. And talk about it bitterly to a new romance. Don't be that guy. Just be a gentleman and walk away peacefully and mutually. - 2.5K opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.
I think its two things
1. Girls want you to tell them how you feel and not keep things hidden
2. Girls want to know that you care how they feel and feel bad when they feel bad
A lot of woman will date a guy that is broke or ugly if he offers her supreme emotional support that she can't get from others - 821 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.
... we're not that complicated. Well most of us aren't. Just be loyal to us, treat us right, feed us, give us the occasional bit of attention and care, and make sure we're comfortable and happy.
That's it- you would think that's easy enough but apparently not, lol -
When we complain to you about our day and other stuff, what we really want is a listening ear and a shoulder to lean on. We just want you to show some attention to us.
We are not looking for you to provide a 5-pg solution to solve our problems, nor for you to tell us that we are doing it wrongly, and compare us to other people. -
Whilst pmsing, it really is hormones... I could watch a dog food commercial and start crying because the dog was too cute. I could have had an amazing day but because I kicked my toe I could murder someone... i could have just had dinner and still eat an entire cake on my own...
It's not that we want to be that way. But every now and again it's just a really bad period that throws our emotions all over the show and as much as we dont want to be emotional or angry or hungry, we just are and we have 0 control over it... -
That if you play nice and be their puppy, they will 99.9% of the time lead you on hence gaining their ego boost. Whatever you do, DO NOT put women on a pedestal. I was reading a take the other day and this guy was saying how he grinded the gym in order to get a perfect body just for women. It would have been good if he did it for him self. But he did for others which disgusts me. So if a women told him to hang him self, he would probably do it LOL. People need to understand that women are just like us. Stop putting them on a pedestal and being their slave. That guy was just an embarrassment to us males. What’s worse is that these beta males have yet to go extinct LMFAO.
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1 He should always listen 2 a girl. They like guys who listen 2 what they have 2 say. 2 Always try 2 put them first. Making sure they are took care of. 3 another is always show compasion and understanding. 4 One thing never 2 do is make them cry. Along with never call them fat. 5 remember a girl should always come first.
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That any girl is just another human more, and like any human each person is different, have different necessities, express emotions differently have different hobbies and skills and different ways to understand the world.
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You can't hide anything from us. WE KNOW EVERYTHING, we just pretend we don't.
And it hurts when you think we don't, it insults our 6th sense. -
We are really not as complicated as guys think we are
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That like attracts like. If I like you, it's because you have certain qualities that I admire which I likely have in myself. I'm fit, smart (I've had my IQ tested), into my career and I enjoy going out. If you're much smarter than me, you'll likely get bored with me fast. If you're really social and outgoing, my introverted nature will be a turn-off. If you're overweight, I'm not going to be into you. Just find someone similar to yourself.
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That she is exclusively attracted to only a 100% emotionally stable man. Meaning, that any man who cries even once, even after years, or expresses that he does not have control of a situation, is then far less attractive if not completely unattractive.
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That not all girls are perfectly shaven/have a smooth, perfect and curvy body. We live in a society where we don't know how to make our own reality and we just follow others instead, by this I mean some follow TV stars or celebs.
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Protect us, make us feel safe. But for the love of god dont suffocate us and threaten everybody that looks in my direction!! Hype me up and make me feel important.
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Well I know it's almost impossible but. Her feelings. That's the most important
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We are really just like you but our culture formed yours and our opinion of us making it seem like we are different. Also you need to give women oral.
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That they are lying to men about what they want in a man.
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They don't think the same way we do! You think you know what is in their head because you know what you would be thinking under those circumstances, but they are not thinking the same thing at all!
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We just crave affection and value communication. Sometimes just listening and showing compassion is enough to make us feel better.
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We will be total brats for the most part but at the end of the day we still like you.
Sort of,:)
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