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your SO says:
hey I am pregnant and i want a car, I have to walk 1 hour to work.
your co workers say, get her a 800$ tablet for work.

SO: hey I am really sick and I don't know what is wrong, I don't have any allergies because the allergist did two tests and says there's nothing wrong. I need to see an ENT doctor.
your co workers say, she is lying and there is nothing wrong with her, she is just a drama queen.

SO: hey I really like myrtle beach and have always wanted to go and I would love to go with you.
your co workers say: myrtle beach is an awful place, no matter what don't go with your wife.

SO: hey I have so much trouble ordering this massage stick on amazon, I really want one. Can you get me one?
your co workers say: don't buy her anything for valentines day or your anniversary or her birthday or for mothers day. Just go and spend tons of money on yourself.

1. Pregnant wife falls off bike while paddling 1 hour to work and it's freezing out with pouring rain.
2. Pregnant wife has bad liver and it's inflamed along with high bile levels.
3. Wife has to go to myrtle beach all by herself with tons of random guys hitting on her.
4. Wife doesn't get a massage stick but she does buy husband star wars shirts, star wars drinking glasses and chocolate & wine along with going to husband's favorite restaurant and making husband a gift that's both meaningful and thoughtful while wife gets NOTHING.

then husband says stuff like "I always try to make you happy but you are not ever happy what is the hell wrong with you?"

Do you want to be with person A who wants to make you a better person and encourages you to stop bad habits, maybe you are a person without empathy and they help you have empathy, or you are a selfish person and they help you to become more loving and selfless, or you are an angry person and they help you to have forgiveness and peace, or you smoke and drink a lot and they helped you get off the drugs. Or you are a person who is money hungry and think that love is just having tons of money and they help you see what love really is (love isn't stuff and money). They reach out to you to become a better you.

OR

Do you want to be with someone who just turns a blind eye to everything you do and not care. You don't eat anymore and you are getting overly thin. They don't care. You overeat and are getting too fat. They don't care. You aren't sleeping anymore at night, they don't care. You are overly spending money too much and getting into debt, they don't care. You are hurting physically and something is going on with your health, they don't care and they think you are lying. They don't care if you become a drunkard. They don't care about you at all as long as all you do is just be with them and serve them. This person doesn't care if you like to kill animals or steal from the poor, or if you do anything illegal or bad. They would care less and they pretend you aren't there except for the times they want you to serve them. If you don't serve them anymore then they ignore you completely.

(I don't know if you guys know but if you have been following my questions, one is me and one is the husband. i. e. I am the low self esteem and he is the narcissist, I am the door mat and he is the argmentative one etc If you guess which one is me and which one is the husband I will like your answer with a thumbs up!)