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So I have this “friend” she’s like almost 30 years older than me. She has a bad life. She steals, she does drugs, she neglects her baby. She fails to provide for her baby, she “jokingly” asked for 80$ one day. I said yeah you can borrow it (I had recently gotten 21 thousand so I didn’t mind sharing. Without her knowing I had that much money she asked for more without paying me back then more then one day I was shopping with my boyfriend she asked to hang out I said yeah because I thought she was our friend. While my boyfriends in the salon getting his hair done she starts crying and telling me a sob story I feel bad because she can’t buy her baby gifts for Christmas I then give her 150 so she won’t feel like shit waking up Her baby on Christmas morning with nothing. Then I needed a pair of new shoes and so did my boyfriend so we go into foot locker we’re all trying on shoes. She goes and try’s on a 200 dollar pair of shoes, and then tries to steal them I’m a goody two shoes. Fuck no is someone gonna steal something while I’m around. I go pay for them. Then she kept borrowing money and borrowing money. I never say no to people when they ask. Unless I have nothing I’m always there to help people. and I’m just like fuck. I’m broke. I need the money. And I asked her for it for months and she won’t give me any of it, she keeps saying different dates then I’ll message her on that day then she will say a different day what do I do? Is it my fault that I was too nice or is it hers for taking advantage of me? I’m so fed up now I’m not gonna be nice anymore. This was the last message I sent her.. I spent 720$ towards that girl. And she’s still asking for more and giving me sob story’s. Am I mean to have sent this though. I feel mean.

I've been going out with my partner for nearly three years and his family are amazing. At the beginning of the relationship his younger sister and I used to get along, all of us would sit up watching movies, she used to call me her sister.
My parents have never been a big fan of my boyfriend and have caused problems between us from the off set. Causing my partner stress and last year it hit breaking point, my partner had a wondering eye and thoughts about someone I knew. My parents went off the scale (the people who have abused me for years.) they banned me near him, twisting stories, even tried beating the care I had for my partner out of me, little did I know they had been sending my partner and his family death threats leading up to his incident. The confusion got so bad I ended up taking an overdose.

It was then apparent that I couldn't live in the same house as my parents anymore, so my partners family took me in, everything was going fine, everything was working out. I started working but I had to get up at unusual times. the movie nights continued with his sister, but it was getting later, my partners Mother had a word with his sister saying that we needed our space and that I was at work so I needed to go bed early little to my knowledge. That was last Christmas Eve. so that was strike one.

On Christmas day last year his parents got me equal presents to her. this seemed to be strike 2 and on boxing day we took her shopping, she liked a teddy, to which I got her and she said she didn't want it. she was very distant from me which was unusual. since then she has just gotten worse, she cannot stand to even be in the same room as me. she daggers me, ignores me, I've just changed my job to full time hours and it is late and early starts, so my partners room isn't the tidiest and she will comment on it. her best friend hates me his sister has even got a close family friend to try and split us up.

His Mum told me his sister thinks I've taken him away? How?