Search Results: talking to unattractive guys

How to talk to guys - with no experience covered?

I’m 18 and don’t know how to talk to guys at all. Some background information: I grew up without my father and have no male siblings. I have zero male friends and my two short “relationships” ended pretty quickly in some...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Weirdo date or not?

Ok, so I agree to meet this guy from OkCupid after exchanging a few emails. We agree to meet at a bar after work. I had never been to this bar and should have looked it up. In any case, I drive to the date and was shocked...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Am I unattractive?

I moved into a new country for the first time and I am the only black kid in my high school. I had a crush on this guy but couldn't let him know cos we never talk. He hangs out with the popular guys and I have my own...

Anonymous

(25-29)

I feel discouraged to go for a good looking guy because I feel like he must get almost any woman he wants. Is this stupid?

I wish I wasn't this way or thought this way but I notice that I am. Whenever I meet or see a super attractive male I don't give him attention or try for him because I assume he must get all the action he wants and if he...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Women Don't Want Money, But They Want What It Can Buy

I will be honest i have never dated a woman who said "you must have money" in fact all the girls i went out with never talked about money or asked about it.... however i noticed that my friends who did have money were far...

Z-Spark

Xper 5 Age: 32

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Guys, I always notice guys looking at me but they never approach me, is it because they don't want to or because the fear of rejection?

I mean they look at me like they want to talk to me but they never do, and lately i've been thinking that maybe they just look at me because im ugly or something? i don't know, but i find it odd that they always look...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Why does she not feel the same way?

So i really like this girl but she had a boyfriend. She then broke up with her boyfriend, then we started talking. We talked for 2 months. Turns out we have everything in common, even the small little things you dont...

tyley1993-09

Xper 2 Age: 33

Who do you find to be more negative overall, girls or guys?

Maybe this question doesn't even have an answer, but in my own experience, the people who have mainly not thought twice about saying something insulting towards me or making me feel down have been girls. Guys will joke...

Peopleschamp

Xper 6 Age: 29

Maybe this question doesn't even have an answer, but in my own experience, the people who have mainly not thought twice about saying something insulting towards me or making me feel

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Why do guys treat me differently from other girls?

Hey guys, I'm 18 and okay this might be a weird question lol. So I'm in college and I've noticed a lot of guys being weird with girls and talking to them about personal topics and being kinda creepy with them. They...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girls, Is it normal to be turned on when a guy is angry?

Not looking for a perv answer. Is it normal to get turned on when a guy is being aggressive / angry? Not talking about a guy hitting you or calling you names, i'm talking more if you where to make a mistake and a guy...

Anonymous

(25-29)

How Do I Look?

I have terrible self esteem?

So look at all the gorgeous girls out there... tan, slim, beautiful... There's no question about my sister being gorgeous and hot. But I feel I am ugly and unattractive. She gets ALL attention from the male population...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Body confidence issues?

There's no question about my sister being gorgeous and hot. But I feel I am ugly and unattractive. She gets ALL attention from the male population and I get NONE. I'm short, chubby (but losing weight) and pale and a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Health & Fitness

Am I the only one who doesn't find fitness girls attractive?

I'm not talking about girls who go to the gym to stay fit. I'm talking about those proper fitness freaks who live in the gym. The girls who lift and have muscular bodies. I think muscles on girls looks absolutely...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

[READ DETAILS] Will you not like someone due to his/her looks? Will he like me when he sees me?

I've been talking to this guy online and the feeling is quite strong. We've been through a series of ups and downs and we are finally going to meet tomorrow. What affects me is my looks. I've sent him my selfie before and...

PearIyn

Xper 5 Age: 27

I've been talking to this guy online and the feeling is quite strong. We've been through a series of ups and downs and we are finally going to meet tomorrow. What affects me is my

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Games Females Play

I’m sure some guys have already either had these experiences or are aware of them, but it wouldn’t hurt to inform others. I don’t always agree with everything guys do or say, but at the end of the day it’s still my gender...

ManOnFire

Editor Age: 39

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Telling girls I dont want a relationship is a good idea?

At this point in my life after dating a couple girls and talking to dozens i realized something, girls find me cool, have a good personality and great looks, they absolutly want to date me but... they do not want to have...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Ladies why do y'all rarely date men that your female friends female family members don't find physically attractive?

I've had a few guy friends who approached women , make a good connection, and just when they are about to close the deal , the woman turns them down because their female friends family members hated on the guy saying he's...

EvilPimp

Guru Age: 46

Why do I feel insulted because this girl is in love with me? How can I reject her when she behaves this way? How to act now?

There is this girl from college i talked with for about 2 1/2 months with because she is in our circle of friends. I have no interest in her, mainly because i know that she had many sexual partner while im conservative...

Anonymous

(25-29)