Search Results: what can push a guy away

Ladies I would appreciate an opinion?

This girl said yes to study date. On the “date” was more of a hangout she admits she’s been watching my socials and tell me stories and sometimes they linked to Snapchat and she was I know you saw that. It was her friends...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

Feedback on this would be appreciated?

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Could a guy I was seeing casually, who then got a girlfriend, reconnect with me and see me as girlfriend material years later?

Basically, I've had a long history with someone. We initially met and there was an instant 'thing' there. He's the only person I've ever liked in 31 years, the chemistry was insane. For various reasons (he was not in a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Other

Was I taken advantage of?

I know this is probably a stupid ass question, and its happened to me when I was younger and in elementary school. Just in a different way. Long story short, I wen't out with a friend who invited his friends (who I don't...

Katarina01

Xper 3 Age: 26

Dating

Did I come on too strongly to this guy, yes or no?

I had been seeing him for a couple of months casually (once a week due to schedules). He considered it dating, and we would hang out for 5 hours at his place and then later have sex. 2 months in I told him that I was...

aintnocandle

Xper 5 Age: 32

Dating

How do I get him to chase me again?

I and a guy were flirty and he said he likes me. He seemed shy and I said you seem like you are not into me and are too shy.. he said no, I really want you and you are beautiful. But hasn’t made arrangements to see me....

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

Is my ex-boyfriend putting me on the backburner and was our last contact an open-ended discussion. Advice?

Ex and I broke up in November 2020. We caught up a week later (pushed by me) and we've stayed in contact ever since up until about 6 weeks ago. We have had a few long phone calls since and as always he's expressed doubt...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

He's barely spoken to me in days, are we okay?

So I've been hanging around ( I honestly don't know what we are) around with this guy for well over a year now and the other night he said he loves me and I was taken aback because I couldn't believe it considering we...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

My friend always gets hard/boner when he’s around me and I don’t know why?

Basically, he’s my best friend. He tells me everyday I’m like his sister and wishes me to find a good guy etc.. I’m not his type and he def is not mine. Sometimes when we are watching movies he’s next to me in the bed and...

Sarahbbb

Xper 3 Age: 23

Relationships

Am I having too much of emotional needs? How to forget and move past?

I love this guy who is having trouble moving on from his ex. He did mention her. The girl does not like him more than a friend but he keeps going after her. So recently, I caught his comment on his ex's profile. the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

HELP! This guy planted a seed of doubt in my mind? what can I do?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Caught in the spiders web... the dumb bug

I'm sharing this for other men, and women as well, so that you know what can go wrong, and that you know there is hope for your life when you fall into the wrong trap. It's conveyed from a male viewpoint, but certainly,...

lightbulb27

Master Age: 59

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Family & Friends

Why did my friend try to push me out of my social circle?

I had to cut ties with a friend who was bullying me. She was alwuas angry at me, snapping at me and her anger towards me was unpredictable. I ignored her messages for a while and she showed up at my social group weeks...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Flirting

Should I tell my friend her crush is flirting with me?

I was hanging out with my friends and there was a new guy who was with us. He seems sort of like a naturally flirty guy so i noticed some sparks between him and one of my friends. Later my friend told me she thought he...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

Why did my friend try to push me out of my social group?

I had to cut ties with a friend who was bullying me. I ignored her messages and she showed up at my social group weeks later. She was glaring at me a all night then she made an indirect comment about friends who don’t...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Guy's Behavior

Has he lost interest in me?

he was someone i know from school and a week ago he suddenly comforted me because of my mental health (i was suprised actually bc he's not that type of person, he's a shy guy actually) & he also opened up to me about his...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Guy's Behavior

Should I ask my boyfriend why he’s distant?

We used to talk alll the time now he only texts me like once a day maybe twice at a push... I asked if he’s busy and he was like “no just been chilling” I asked if he’s talking to anyone else or needs space and he said...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

I’m in love with a man who wants kids, but I can’t have kids - what should I do?

So I’ve been talking to a guy for over a year now since last February before covid and because of covid we haven’t met up. He’s not a catfish if anyone is wondering. He recently moved back to his home country for a while...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Society & Politics

Why people become more conservative/libertarian through life's experiences and getting older (CAUTION: LONG READ)

Some people hate that title, but this is true (for the most part). To give you some background I think back to my late teens and early 20's, a time when you are exposed to more politics because of your age and because you...

bellybuttonlint

Yoda Age: 42

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Family & Friends

Why did my friend try to push me out of my social circle?

So I had to cut ties with a friend who was bullying me. I ignored her messages and she showed up at my social group weeks later. She was glaring at me a all night then she made an indirect comment about friends who don’t...

Anonymous

(30-35)