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If a girl asks you out Can you ask her the following questions?

Why Me?

Why Now, you could have had me before?

What do I have now that i didn't have before?

Why did you choose other guys over me for the last 5 years?

I bloomed late and and this girl in my grade really likes me now. She always dated guys older than her but has now turned her attention to me. I met her when I first started as the new guy at school 5 years ago. I've hung out with her in group settings and parties on and off over the last 4 years.

But here is the thing, she had a chance to like me every year for the last 5 years but chose to date other guys over me. I told her i liked her a few times in the past but she still chose other guys over me. That makes me sick. Who knows what she did sexually with those other guys.

Now she is coming at me 100 miles per hour and won't leave me alone. She is constantly texting me, playing with my hair during class, kicking my desk, asking me to hang out alone, and keeps joking how I'm going to take her to prom. ha ha

I don't want to date her because she was a douche bag magnet and she CHOSE those other guys over me. I want to ask her the following questions. Is this Rude?

Why Me?

Why Now, you could have had me before?

What do I have now that i didn't have before?

Why did you choose other guys over me for the last 5 years?

Basically it's been 7 months since we broke up and I was convinced like 3 months ago I was over her. I stopped thinking about her I thought about other girls, I was with other girls and my ex never crossed my mind as someone I wanted to be with. We have the same friends so we stayed friends and managed to make it work. We still talk but not very much. I've found myself thinking about her again. Especially today. I woke up from a dream where my friend was asking her to prom and I just kept telling myself i just want her to be happy. I woke up missing her like crazy. I can't stop thinking about her and I'm realizing I never got over her. She's been sick and throughout the 7 months I've been calling her asking how she was doing and we had some nice conversations. When she got dumped by a boyfriend I called her to check up and when she got dumped again I called her and we talked and had a nice a conversation. I now realize that I've been subconsciously trying to get her to think I'm the guy for her and I'm always there. I don't know what to do. I miss her insanely right now and I can't decide whether I should tell her I have feelings for her or just let it be and move on. She's perfect, nobody realizes how amazing she is and she keeps getting the wrong guy. I've changed since the break up everyone thinks so. What do I do any advice is appreciated