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At this point in life, I am madly in love with two women.

Carol. I stayed with her family when I went to school abroad for 3 years. We started dating our junior year until graduation. We lost our virginity together and we were in love no doubt. So when she told her father, he went postal. Literally. He moved the family to freakin California and cut off contact between us. Since there was no where for me to go, I had to go back to my family in France. Carol was still 17 so she didn't have say in anything yet.

Marie. After about month of sulking, I tried to get past Carol and move on. I met one of my younger crushes Marie at my sister's party. I had a crush on her since I was 7. She made a face at me and I was stuck ever since. We starting hanging out and pretty soon we fell in love with one another. Like peanut butter and jelly, we were never apart .We even skipped work some days just to spend time with each other .We were going out seriously for about 3 months until f***ing David showed up. Her ex. He is trying real real hard to get Marie back. Marie tells me she is over David but she always acts weird when he around. I really want to believe her as I love her, and I know she does me as well.

The Problem: two weeks ago, it was Carol's 18th birthday. She found out my info from our high school. This is weird, because they denied me when I asked but anyways, back to the story. After talking to Carol for a bit, She told me that she had saved up the money and was coming to visit. I thought this was grand news except for my broken relationship I have now.

Poll: My friends, I am stuck between loving two women. And It's going to break my heart to have choose between them. I have 3 weeks until Carol comes, and me and Marie aren't going out at the time. My sister says Marie hasn't made contact with David since we broke up. The decision is mine to bare but I still want your guys input. What do you think? Carol, from America? Marie, from France?

So I am in a long distance relationship and been hanging out with someone close by. I know how this sounds, and before you go all "I am what's wrong with men" hear me out.

The woman I am currently involved with is great. She is funny and smart and incredibly sexy. I mean I have some particular tastes beyond some people's normal realm when it comes to sex, nothing weird but just adventurous. She is into the same stuff I am, with that and otherwise. In actuality if I had to put it to pen, she is pretty close to what I would build for myself in a woman.

The catch is I am a single dad and she is 7 years younger than me. Now I'm not old by any means but that is kind of where the problem comes in. She is younger and doesn't have a full grasp on the parent hood. Up to this point we have, what we called, a test run where she came for about 10 days and lived with us. It didn't end well. I think in our case distance works for us.

However, I have recently met this wonderful woman. She is very free spirited, also a single parent, a great mother, likes the kind of stuff I do and is into philosophy and stuff like that (which I am as well). I think she likes me, though we are "just friends". But I am pretty sure there is more there. I can see where it could go if both of us decided we wanted to.

The question I have, how do I decide between the two? I can see futures with both.

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