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Not asking if the majority of women actually cheat but I'm asking if the majority of women (especially American women) who do cheat, play the victimcard toward their boyfriend, fiance, or husband by blame theme for their reasons of cheating in order to alleviate themselves from responsibilities of their own actions (just plain avoiding holding themselves accountable). Here's one facebook video link displaying what I'm talking about.

Facebook video - Man catches fiance cheating on him for a woman

If there's one thing I passionately despise about cheaters, it's their extreme lack of honesty about how they feel towards me as a partner and a relationship. If a woman doesn't want to be with that man anymore, PLEASE either work out the problems between you and your partner or just tell him directly you want to break up rather than trying to hide shit behind his back and then come up with bullshit excuses once your partner catches you on the act. Now this is absolutely NOT to say that men don't cheat as much as women but at least the male cheaters don't come up with the lamest excuses and then play the victimhood card to alleviate their responsibilities for his own actions. All I can say in one word about cheaters is, they're one of the most fickle people.

You are at your best friend’s wedding just an hour before the ceremony is to start. Earlier that day, you came across definitive proof that your best friend’s spouse-to-be is having an affair with the best man/maid of honor, and you catch them sneaking out of a room together looking disheveled. If you tell your friend about the affair, their day will be ruined, but you don’t want them to marry a cheater. What do you do?