Search Results: how to get over a long term relationship

Is it a good idea to try a relationship with my significantly younger friend with benefits? Why/why not?

I started a Friends with Benefits relationship with a significantly younger guy about 8 months ago (I'm 41, he's 26). For a while we just got down when my kids were with their dad (which is a decent amount since he lives...

Anonymous

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My little cousin keeps wanting to physically touch me and I am not sure what to do to get her to stop?

First, none of what I am describing is sexual or indecent. I'm 25, my cousin is 14, and since my older cousin and I are the only family in the state we visit each other very often. While I don't mind playing with the...

Anonymous

(30-35)

How do you help an older man get over his ex and long term relationship?

I want to show him he can trust again. The distance and the age gap does not help. Help.

Femmefatale97

Xper 5 Age: 28

Why do people take so long to get over breakups?

Why do people take so long to get over breakups? Im' a man so I'm asking about women taking a long time and being sensitive. I'm not suggesting they take longer. Just that it's them I care about. Why aren't they...

yrdady

Xper 4 Age: 44

Confession of a Ladies Man: Addressing the Haters, What Is A "Ladies Man"?

A Ladies Man is Not A Man Whore I find that people are triggered by the term “Ladies Man” because they don’t really know what I mean by that. They assume it means that I am a guy who sleeps around with multiple women at...

Apope16

Editor Age: 39

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In a long term relationship, if you crave more intimacy is it better to see your girlfriend more often or less, to increase the chances overall?

My girlfriend and I have dated for almost 4 years. As of recent, our sex life is just stagnant. Every time I bring the convo up of asking for more intimacy in general, she either ends up in tears or it feels like there’s...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Should I stop talking to this girl because of my beliefs or am I being too extreme?

For the past couple of months, I’ve been seeing this girl, let’s call her Kara and we’re both Christians, just of different denominations. I’m Seventh-day Adventist and worship on Saturday, she’s Pentecostal and worships...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Health & Fitness

How Bipolar Disorder has impacted my life: The truth of what it's like to suffer a mental illness!

Well, it's always been hard to talk about how Bipolar Disorder has shaped my life. First off, what is Bipolar Disorder? Mayo Clinic defines it as "a disorder associated with episodes of mood swings ranging from depressive...

jazzygirl0826

Xper 5 Age: 27

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Society & Politics

The Most Influential Black People in the United States of America (Final Part)

Today, on February 28th, 2021, is the final day of Black History Month in the United States of America. This is the fourth, and final edition of the series. Click on the following links if you want to see part three ,...

EnglishArtsteacher

Editor Age: 35

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Society & Politics

The Most Influential Black People in the History of the United States of America (Part 3)

Here in the United States of America, February is Black History Month. This is the third edition of my series. If you want to read the first two parts, view Part one here . and view Part two here . Just as a premise,...

EnglishArtsteacher

Editor Age: 35

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Break Up & Divorce

(LONG POST) Help. How do I move on?

About 6 months ago, I met this guy on tinder. I had gotten out of a long term relationship and he was being super nice. He would tell me everything that I wanted to hear. We ended up dating and then after three months he...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Society & Politics

The Most Influential Black People in the History of the United States of America (Part 2)

We are in Black History Month in the United States of America(USA). Just as a premise, I'm not a black person myself, and I'm not writing this as a way to virtue signal, and this isn't performative activism. I'm not even...

EnglishArtsteacher

Editor Age: 35

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Break Up & Divorce

He barely sees me and asked me not to come over to spend time with his kid?

So I’m looking at this long term. I do not have any issues with him wanting to spend time with his kid but I thought the goal of our relationship getting serious is to have us both spend more time with his son and if we...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Flirting

Does it sound like me likes me?

I met a guy through work in Oct. When I first met him, he was pretty quiet, would be a little jokey. We saw each other twice a week and he got to telling more jokes and teasing me. Now he teases me all the time, even...

Anonymous

(30-35)

I realized I (37f) have feelings for my friend who is now my current roommate (27m)?

We met a year and a half ago. We pretty much immediately started hanging out as we had the same friends. We then started sleeping together. Nothing serious it was purely casual. We both had recently gotten out of...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Is my boyfriend's demand that I progress reasonable?

Long ago in 2010 or 2011, I dumped him on bad terms and called him a loser. I was 23/24 years old at the time and resuming college. I obtained my BA (finishing college for the first time) in June 2016. We got back...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How do I get over fear of being hurt?

I don’t even know where to start but I have no one to talk to. When I try to talk to my closest friends and family, they all tell me I’m beautiful and am strong and don’t need a man because I work and take great care of...

Anonymous

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Why withholding sex does not produce higher quality men

Does withholding sex actually work in weeding out which partner is best? The answer is no. Here is what all these broken hearted women dont understand. As a ladies man I have many women in my phone. I fuck the women who...

Apope16

Editor Age: 39

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