Search Results: long term relationship breakup

A female friend of mine admitted to me last year that she's had a huge crush on me for years and had thought about us being together. That she had been thinking about me everyday and that I was constantly in her dreams. But we were both in long term relationships at the time (6+ years) so nothing materialized after that conversation and we just stayed friends. It's now about a year later and we are both single now. She has been confiding in me about her recent breakup while mine was about 6 months ago. There's definitely some flirting when we hang out but neither of us has really brought up the topic of what we discussed last year. My question is mainly for the ladies out there, would her feelings for me have gone away over the last year or would those feelings have stuck? I realize she's just coming out of a LTR so she's going to need time to heal, but I'm just wondering if she would have gotten over me since she tried to make her relationship work. Would a huge crush go away, or would she naturally be thinking about a relationship with me once she's ready?

My ex and I recently had broken up, throughout the breakup, my best friend (female) had more or less playing both sides of the fence. Asking me for information that come to find, she already had through talking with my ex. And in some cases, knowing things that I didn't even know, not that it would have been any of my business to begin with. While I certainly understand that it is by no means my place to say who can and cannot be friends, I DID ask my best friend how she felt about the situation prior and during the break up, my best friend had said that she and my ex weren't really that close. I then asked if maybe while going through the break up and until my ex and I get to a point where we were on some kind of good terms to cool it on the talking and hanging out. This obviously didn't happen. The way I see a break up is someone ends the relationship, meaning they no longer want to be a part of your life, thus, cutting all ties is a part of that. So now I am feeling a total lack of respect from both individuals, as well as a lack of loyalty from my friend. Haven't even heard from my friend for almost three weeks now. Should I even be conflicted by this or just let it go and cut both off? Any wisdom would is appreciated.