My boyfriedn and I recently broke up and during our relationship he wasn't the best boyfriend. He thought it was okay to get other girls numbers at bars, he said he could see himself cheating on me since im waiting until marriage for sex, he's sworn at me while mad at me , would talk about other girls and how they were pretty, wouldn't cut off his ex who repeatedly called him trying to hook up with him, and was a selfish person overall. The last few weeks we went on a break because of my mom (long story) and still talked everyday for hours however when my mom was deciding to give him a try he wanted to be single still and have the opportunity to talk to other girls and have sex with them and get back togeether in the fall and I said no and said we were going to break up. He called me that night saying that he still really wanted to be single for the summer and mess with other girls but if it would ruin things with us he would be with me. I didn't want someone who was only halfway into me so I told him to be single and do what he wanted to do and we could just break up. He was happy that we weren't ending on bad terms and said that he couldnt see himself waiting for marriage for me and that this would be best for the both of us. I agreed with him and said I would see him in September when I got my stuff back and hung up. Since then he has called thirty times and sent twenty five texts and I haven't responded to one. I feel like it was a clear breakup but now he is saying that he feels like I owe him closure and that he wants to get back together. Do I really owe him anything?
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You don't owe him shit! He sounds like a total douche bag and he doesn't deserve a girl like you. He just wants to manipulate you and try to make you stay on the line so he can have the best of both worlds. You are correct he is very selfish and until he figures that out no girl should put up with his crap!2