You owe him nothing. If you feel complete on the matter and that he has nothing left to give you, then do not respond. Do not engage. You have given him enough of you heart, your pain, and your tears. It is time to take care of you, and quite frankly NOT engaging is the kinder thing to do for you and for him. This may sound counter-intuitive, but I promise this is the case. By engaging with him, you would just be allowing him to feed into the drama, HIS drama.
Take care of yourself. Stay strong, and be gentle to you. <3
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You don't owe him anything. He was a lousy boyfriend, as you mentioned. If anything, he owes you closure. Guys like him think he can get away with anything and that the girl should be able to take his shitty behaviour. No. It doesn't work that way. If he wanted or wants to fuck around and he made that clear to you then let him fuck around, you can't stick around to see what happens and get your feelings deeply hurt. It's unfair and a horrible thing to do!
You don't owe him shit! He sounds like a total douche bag and he doesn't deserve a girl like you. He just wants to manipulate you and try to make you stay on the line so he can have the best of both worlds. You are correct he is very selfish and until he figures that out no girl should put up with his crap!
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you dont owe him anything.
no, you don't. you'll only waste away your life.
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